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So it happened. I had empty my heart out to him. I thought heโ€™d acknowledge at least a tiny bit of my problems. But heโ€™d just shut me up with another of his excuses about how difficult his life has become. He had changed so much since a last few months. It felt as if I was talking to a wall. He thought my problems were trivial. He wasnโ€™t the person that I used to know anymore. Acted so stone cold almost as if he was disgusted by my vulnerability. He seemed so aloof and nonchalant when I was speaking to him about our communication gap. I no longer felt the warmth in his words. It just felt I was talking to another acquaintance. I couldnโ€™t take it anymore. I could not bear to be hurt like this everyday. I felt so empty around him. He dropped me off and did not even turn around when I bid him goodbye. In the span of an afternoon everything changed so drastically. I could not help but text him and tell him about how his negligence has affected me. I broke things off with him and blocked him. I have no idea how I am gonna hold myself together after this. I can only hope that itโ€™ll pass too.

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you too, huh? I donโ€™t know why people get this way. I donโ€™t know which experiences from their past or present provoke them to act this way. And somehow, this whole vulnerability thing just drives them even further, I have no idea what it is with these guysโ€ฆI wish I knew, or if someone else who knows could tell me. But I too have accepted that that is just how some people are and that I am better off without him. Hope you too find the strength to bounce back, which in my experience is possible if youโ€™re determined. Good luck, this too shall pass ?

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Kapil Agrawal @kapil15a

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Things are meant to be happened. The good thing about your relationship was that you come to know abt your partners priorities so early and make your move accordingly. Making a move or taking a decision in a bad relationship is the most important aspect of someoneโ€™s life and if this relationship didnโ€™t work for you then it was not meant to be .And life is a journey with some good and bad experiences.ย  And the most important thing in any relationship is listening if one is not listening then thereโ€™s nothing you can do but to leave them

Anthony @anthony

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the best thing you said was telling him about how he treats youโ€ฆand broke it off with himโ€ฆnow all you do is remember your self worth and stick to itโ€ฆyou deserve better rather you realize it or notโ€ฆa person that knows they have a welcome mat will continue to treat you as suchโ€ฆbut the moment you show that youre not to them they realize that youre A SOMEONE with feelings and emotions who deserve to be treated with respectโ€ฆand the coward moves on to find a welcome matโ€ฆbut it wont be YOU anymore love.

Deepanshi @deepanshigupta0

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The good thing about your relationship was that you come to know abt your partners priorities so early and make your move accordingly. Making a move or taking a decision in a bad relationship is the most important aspect of someoneโ€™s life
Stay blessed and more power to you.

Khushboo @khushboo

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Hey, donโ€™t overthink about him anymore. Donโ€™t value those who donโ€™t care for you. Try to move on and stay happy.

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