So Iβm confused on whether Iβm bisexual or a lesbian, even when I was younger and I used to think I was straight bc thatβs what everyone expects you to be + I was very homophobic so i the idea of liking anyone but men was never allowed in my head. Even then, I would always think about how I thought Iβd be so weird to date or kiss any of those boys a I thought were good looking, then i realized i liked girls and with girls, I actually did feel both sexual and romantic attraction and I did want to date them, my feelings were very different so I started to question being gay, being bisexual means feeling sexual and or romantic attraction towards both genders, yet Iβm only aesthetically attracted to men. What does that make me? Does everyone feel aesthetic attraction to everyone? Idk