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Anonymous

So i was in a relationship for the past 10 years. But now my partner has moved abroad for her studies. We have been dating each other since the 7th grade. We were recently having a hard time in management of time and all the other challenges. One day out of nowhere my partner asked me whether we can continue this as friends ? Because she is having a hard time in adjusting to her new life abroad. I have been explaining to her that i can never be friends with her because I always want her as my partner. But i cant ask or request her much because she already has her plate full with other stuffs. I feel so lonely and frustrated. I feel like i have nowhere to go now. Nobody to look forward too.

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Ksoul @ksoul

You always have people here who are as vulnerable as you

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Anonymous

What should i do now ? All this is affecting me immensely. I cannot focus on my job. I have already spent sleep less nights just hoping she would get back together.

Ksoul @ksoul

Best thing you can do is leave it to whatever happens and work on yourself . If it’s meant to happen it will . If it’s not how many efforts you put In individually won’t help but hurt you more.

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Anonymous

Its not so easy. I have been trying this for the past 15 days. Nothing feels right about this. I have known her for 10 years. This feeling cannot just go away

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Anonymous

Working on yourself as much as possible will help you reduce your pain the fastest and eventually move on.

Ksoul @ksoul

It will not and that’s completely okay . I am in a similar situation. But eventually you’ll have to right? Talk to someone you feel comfortable with . Or seek help. I totally get you what you are feeling

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Anonymous

What if i dont want to move on ? Because all i want is for us to be together

Ksoul @ksoul

Give it time . If it’s meant to be it will. You can’t force things right.

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Anonymous

It’s a 2 person thing, however much you want to be together if 1 person isn’t interested you will after wasting months or years then try to move on. So better skip all that pain.

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Anonymous

I tried talking to my friends. But in the end i become really uncomfortable. Because i cant think of all this. We never discussed about this. And suddenly all of this happening. Its a lot to digest

Ksoul @ksoul

You need to accept it first. If you cannot seek help. You can’t just be affecting your whole life because of it

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Anonymous

Dont mind me asking but you said you are experiencing the same. What approach do you have ?

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Anonymous

Its not so easy even if the other person has stopped caring or talking. Because I still have feelings for her

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Anonymous

I’m going through the same thing me in my boyfriend didn’t break up but we close to it maybe. We both just have a lot going on in it’s pulling as apart I’m in college and I don’t really have that much time on my hands. And we might have to go live in different places for a while he don’t like the idea but it’s for both of our futures . I know nothing I say can make you feel better but your not alone you have many people around you even if u don’t see them they there . They just want u you to try to alive it yourself first before they take action

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Anonymous

I’m going through the same thing me in my boyfriend didn’t break up but we close to it maybe. We both just have a lot going on in it’s pulling as apart I’m in college and I don’t really have that much time on my hands. And we might have to go live in different places for a while he don’t like the idea but it’s for both of our futures . I know nothing I say can make you feel better but your not alone you have many people around you even if u don’t see them they there . They just want u you to try to alive it yourself first before they take action

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Anonymous

I feel really helpless. I want to talk to others about this but then in the end i become really uncomfortable

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Anonymous

It’s okay to feel uncomfortable no one would judge you for that . You can talk on here about it if that makes you feel better but it’s worst to hold in all in because it’s going get to a point. Where you won’t be able to even be able to talk about it and all your Going want to do I hide it away and carry that past pain with you around for your whole life . It’s better to let it go now so you could live a good life later on

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