So I was dating a guy and we were in like casual relation but eventually I fell in love with him but he is very good so he understood me and o told me we will see where it goes. So after some time i told him we will stop it since am getting too emotional here and my feelings were increasing alot. We have mutual understanding so we remained friends bit since I have feelings I use to call him and all. Sometimes I told him alot of stuff being angry or emotional but I never meant it. So we both follow a confession page and one day one confession came which is almost like our scenario. He is thinking that I did that confession, in that confession that girl has written in a negative way. And this guy is thinking I wrote it and when I told him that I never did any confession and first of all o wont do shit like that because I know he was genuine from the start and he always told me what he wants. But he didn’t give me any reply, I waited so much but still he didn’t give me any reply so he is still believing that I did that confession.
I was so devastated that he is not believing me, I always wanted us to remain good friends or atleast as a good memory. Now this guy is thinking bad about me and not believing me. I told him if you wanna believe then believe or dont but I know I didn’t write it. That page has almost 56k followers, dont you think someone might had the same scenario as me? There is a chance right, I know I told him alot of things when I was angry but it doesn’t mean that I will do it like this in public and that too knowing that he follows the page.
First of all why will I do it, I am already moving on and minding my own business and told him to be happy and enjoy his life. I gave him a present before leaving so that he can remember me so why would he think that I did the negative confession.
I told him what I wanted to say but he didn’t give any reply so I blocked him. I deleted and deactivated my social media accounts.
I never want him to remember me as a bad person, he even liked all the comments. He didn’t even think once that why will I do that, I dont blame him for thinking that I wrote as my cousin is also telling me that the scenario is almost as mine so he is not at fault.
How should I tell him to believe me?
My head is exploding because of that, I know we will never meet again nor talk much in future but still am concerned because I dont want him to regret meeting me just because of some random confession done by some idiot.
Also if I ever wanna share something, I use this platform and even he knows that.
Grasshopper96 @vineetnayak
The guy must be devastated after hearing it , he must have overthought everything , idk might be the guy have thought it’s all true which the confession page did so idk u won’t get a shot later but maybe ur bad person to him , it’s okay things may become good enough
I know that why am sad, for him now am a bad girl. Which I never wanted to happen, all happened because of someone else
It’s okay ig , things might happen to turn out like this ig🥲, just keep yourself belief that you were always true to him you know the bold truth so no issues
I must say I thought you were the girl I was seeing for a while where almost this exact scenario happened. It took til about half way through for a difference in story to come up and I could move on. Just know that this sort of stuff clearly happens more than you think
Yeah right, I mean even in the confession some parts are same but I never blamed him for using me or anything, I might told him but I told him on face and I was in anger and it happened almost a months ago amd we were in good terms now but suddenly this happened. Like same scenarios might happen with alot of people but it doesn’t mean its always me.
Sanket @sanket
Even your friend would be feeling sad, he would have connected with that negative image
However, blocking him and deactivating social media is not an appropriate way. Undo it all
Also, losing a friend and friendship is a huge loss, for now, think of it as a disturbance and give some time
Though keep telling him that you are not the one who wrote it, apologize if required
I know but I dont think now he will talk to him even if I tell me many times. Anyway we were talking very less because he wanted me to move on and even I stopped talking to him much but now it’s like in negative way. He didn’t reply me at all, and I think he doesn’t even care to block me from everywhere as he is tired may be. He just wants to ignore me, also he might get a match and move on so he will never remember me nor talk to me in future as everyone will be in their own life. I want him to be happy.
Sanket @sanket
This is an experience which will somewhere and some time will bring consequences, so from your end just be loud and clear that you haven’t done it
Moving on with such terms is not good, but try, all I can say is do convey
So I unblocked him and asked him if he still believes that I did that and he says he don’t know, so I told him that I know am not the one so believe what you want and I cant say anything more and he said “that’s okay dont worry”, so what does that mean. I told him he lost the trust now so okay then let it be…I dont wanna talk to a guy anymore who doesn’t trust me. Anyways he will never meet me or talk to me, he will ofcourse find a girl and I will find someone so one day we will stop talking somehow as we will be busy in our lives. So now I dont care, I dont know why did I even give an explanation in the first place to him, I didn’t do any wrong.
