So i started talking to a guy in December last year now we are talking ever since but with no convo gaps inbetween coz of his exams. I used to like him tbh but now im very uncertain since all i can see is that he is only interested in me physically which im not comfortable with and he knows that. He sublty passes comments like he will fall in love with me if we continue longer but on the other hand is looking out for girls for arrange marriage. He says he shows his love through intimacy but i feel physical intimacy is not only way to be intimate. Earlier he used to talk to me alot but now it has reduced significantly. Im very confused of how should i take this situationship kinda thingy.
He’s gonna start ghosting you one day… If he had any intention of sticking with you he wouldn’t be looking at gals for an arranged marriage…
Just prepare yourself for it… And when it does… Just remember that the person ghosting you is the jerk…
Love is more than just a few touches…
It’s always better to not fall for the wrong person…
This way you dont ruin your belief in love!!
He won’t ghost me on tge other hand he says if he ever gets married then i should not block him and be in touch once in a while
Hope @cureplace
His thoughts clearly convey, what is wants.
and since now you also know about it, so why stay with the person because of the wrong hope.
Be with someone of your type, there are ample of good people in the world. Not everyone you meet is supposed to be your partner for life.
and secondly I have seen, girls have amazing instinct power, they most of the time, can know what other person intention is right, its upto them they chose to ignore it or not look for someone compatible
Yes now im not talking to him due to his exams it made me realise what he is doing. He’s being a soft fck boi first make me fall for him and then do whatever he likes as i will say yes coz of my feelings
Hope @cureplace
agree and what is the way out now?
This kind of thing also happened with me. But he started ignoring me from February, I’ve noticed that he was online on the other platforms, still never replied. I became so attached to him that I totally lost my interest in everything, it became so hard for me. I even spent so many sleepless nights. After a long suffering I realised that this was like a “Manipulation”, he never loved me, it’s just a show, I was just a timepass to him, nothing else. And yeah this person also adored physical intimacy, but I ignored, maybe that’s why I was omitted. I think You’re still taking him for a good friend that’s why you’re unable to see those negetive sides, I know it’s hard to do so, but please keep in mind these comments always so that even if you have to face this one day, you will not be as broken or fooled as we were. Well wishes ❤️
Yes sane is happening wity me now he is ignoring me like he is online on whatsapp and talking to other people takes so much time to reply back and i feel i shouldn’t be affected by it since he has his own life but it hurts i won’t lie. I do realise he is manipulating me and thankyou for sharing ur thoughts ❤
Yeah you shouldn’t get affected by it, you shouldn’t play according to his plan, he will eventually get frustrated and will show his own colour. Try to be strong, don’t let him decide your mood, waste your time anymore. I know you can handle this 😇
