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Anonymous

So i recently broke up with my long term bf because i wasnt feeling it. i wanted to go on dates and experience love and have cute outings and feel special and woth a relationship so long the spark had faded. i have huge respect for my ex and we still are in touch and we do meet each other and hookup sometimes - though, i recently met 2-3 guys i went on a cute date it was really something - i would not mind going on it again but also there is something that is stopping me from exploring it. and its not my ex sometimes i feel i get so overwhlmed when i have too many options in hand. there is one guy in my gym who is extremely attractive and we have connected on a very soulful level. I sometimes feel i connect and like a lot of men and would want to explore stuff with them and sometime i get so annoyed and overwhelmed i do not want to be pestered or bothered by any of them . I feel relationships are restricting and i like my freedom but i also need a go to person . IDK what to do and feel. is it normal to feel such way? how will i find the one … What do i do with these emotions i feel when i meet new people and how do i subside the feeling of hurting anyone, i dont want to hurt any of the guy

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Anonymous

Never go in relationship, because you are not ready for it. Keep as many options as you can, do whatever you want. Don’t think too much. The suggestion is not good but you will not understand it now so better enjoy your freedom

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Anonymous

I shouldn’t feel bad about hurting any of them right? Guys expect a relationship v soo. And I’m just not ready for it. I like going out and all but not the pressure of meeting again and again. Or a relationship
Just feels wrong

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Anonymous

You shouldn’t give hopes, make clear in start that you don’t want serious relationship or anything like that, and then you won’t hurt anyone

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Anonymous

Everything comes at right time, there will come a time when you will crave for permanent connection, but it’s not the time for that. Let things comes naturally

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Anonymous

Yeah I won’t give any hopes, rest I just feel very bad rejecting people…feels like they’ll hate me for it.

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Anonymous

Rejection is better than playing or giving hopes

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Anonymous

Don’t overthink, …

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Anonymous

There will come a time when you will understand the value of permanent things but not at this moment

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Actually, u still love ur ex.
I think u can’t find spark in any other relationship since, every incident that u might have experience with current partner were already done with ur ex.

Nothing new, so no choice of spark.
Take a long break from dating. Enjoy urself. Find wt u truly want. Then, find someone who can value ur emotions.

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Anonymous

It seems like a toxic behaviour…sorry to say
You are still doing stuff with ex andeeting new people…what is this behaviour

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Anonymous

And meeting*

pS @ps01

this is a very toxic behaviour your showcasing , you should cut off ties with your ex if you want to move on and please don’t play games or go on dates if you still love your ex , it’s wrong for you and your ex too , if you need help connect but please be better

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