So I need help I need to stop checking my messages to see if he replied. He is introverted and when he has his shit going he closed off and I really wanna help but he doesnβt reply. I have tried to respect his space and privacy and wait but I canβt help myself I keep sending messages again and again. I want to stop. I really wanna help or at least know whatβs happening Iβm so anxious.
Try to focus on your life and if youβre bothered about him not texting then whenever you get a chance tell him about it and try to solve
I told him and now Iβm waiting for his reply
If you both like each other genuinely then everything will be alright donβt worry and enjoy your life!
Thankyou I hope things get better
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Kuch nhi hota buddyβ¦ Sidha phone kr use apni dil baat bta de. Vo haa krega to badhiya baat hai or na kre to leave himβ¦ Kya baar baar message dekhneβ¦
Yeah Iβll try that
Hope @cureplace
stop for sometime but did you tried to communicate this ? if yes what was his reply?
because if you start the game of ignoring, things start breaking apart.
Yes i did and he told me heβs just confused with his shit he told me he is not purposely ignoring me and that he likes me. But after that he hasnβt replied to my messages at all.
If he doesnβt want to talk then why you are going after himβ¦concentrate on your workβ¦your lifeβ¦fo out with friends or familyβ¦engage yourself as much as possible and donβt use much phoneβ¦it will be normal in few days
He said he likes me and is just trying to deal with his stuff and isnβt doing it on purpose. So Iβm waitingβ¦
Tmhari glti nhi h yaar agr tm b uske liye maayne rkhti ho toh atleast reason btane m kuch nhi jta usey β¦wo apni problems atleast tmse share kr skta hβ¦but wo Krna nhi chah rha aur tm usko maanti ho isliye zaahir si baat h anxious insaan hoga hi jb samne se koi response na miley aur pta b na ho ki wo insaan kb aaega ya kb kesa h
Closure is important⦠however its also a sign of maturity. If someone is mature and reasonable he/she will certainly give closure and move forward rather than blocking or silent treatment
So he did not give me a reason so that is what is bothering me but otherwise he is nice to me
No he doesnβt want closure he wants to keep seeing me but there is This huge break when he is sad or has problems I donβt know where he is or how he is doing Iβm all alone not knowing what to do.
Thats what dear β¦ closure is important but if arenβt getting just move on β¦ trust me ! Been there done that
So you are not part of his lows in life ? And is this bothering you
Yes exactly, I feel left out confused and helpless. And me constantly asking him are you okay seems like Iβm bothersome and adding to his troubles.
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