So i n my boy were casually tlking n he just said "im happy tht im better than yur ex" so i said "so even im better than yur ex" n he was like "ya but tbh you know she was good"
Like wtf i donno how to react to this 

Boys never bitch about someone in their back 

You just change the topic

Hi!
You discuss this as to how and ask him in terms of what he means by 'she was good' and why are you with me if she was better?🌻

Boyfriend

I like and choose to be secretive about my relationship with my boyfriend....but today I feel terrible with what he did.... He landed at the airport and told me he will be taking a cab... Instead our common friends picked him up... He could have informed me about this... I would have never called....Instead he didn't choose too and when I called that's when he said he's with them.... He asked me why I called and how's my day etc... (Being formal) ..anger gushed into me and I said everything ok.. he asked why am I sounding so low all ok... I said I am alright got loads of work and hung up.... All the spotlight right at me.... Feels so terrible.... or am I anxious.... Please correct me if I am wrong.... But I feel really terrible....I don't want to let my common friends know that I am constantly in touch with him.... Please advise...

Anxiety

Ok 2 mnth back i confessed someone i do ve crush on him .it was not intentional later we went for few dates and it was good later i started catching feelings he also confessed he do have but he can't be in relationship because he had lot problems and he is not ready to open up but then later he opened up that before meeting he was kinda dating his friends sister and later he thought it doesn't workout and he moved on but that girl still hadn't moved on and he can't manage all these and he is not good at it so we can be friends but later we met we still gotta dating feel but the whole problem after every meet he kinda ghost me and i donno whether he is a emotional unavailable mahn or he just saying he likes me because of i like him

There is this guy who was in my school but we never used to talk much. Now he's become wayy more hot, and he started talking to me. We started sharing everything with each other, our past relationships, and everything else. We soon started discovering that we have started liking each other. We also said I love you many times. I really started liking him, ignoring all the hurt of my past. But suddenly he stopped talking. Now he barely calls back or answers any texts. He's just..stopped conversing at all. I don't know what to do, I still see his pictures repeatedly, and I really like him. I'm helpless.

Relationships

I have this friend in my university and he is really nice and all but at the same time he had many relationships in the past and still his reputation is not that good. Meanwhile i am a girl who is kindda considered unapproachable in my class and have never been in a relationship. Suddenly this boy has started taking a lot of interest in me and talks to me on texts and shows his kind of hidden side of being depressed and all. But when we sit together with our friends he is back to his cool playboy type vibes. A part of me wants to just stay like this and see what unfolds but a part of me wants to stay away from him now. What should i do?? Like why this much difference in his personality!

3am Thoughts

This very good looking guy has been flirting with me for months. He asked me out for some drinks, we messed around. Terrible dancer, terrible kisser, smallest penis I have ever seen, terrible at the dirty. He loved it. Why does it bother me so much he hasn’t asked me again?

Let me know your thoughts 

I don’t understand myself
I have very high expectations of everything when other people disappoint me i kept it all to myself.after getting in relationships my bf would try everything to make me happy but having high expectations I would disappoint him with my expression and my reply .He used to love me and show lots of effort in our relationship.I used to fight in small things.I would always ask to breakup with him but he would do everything to protect our relationship.He had anger issue and i also had anger issues not severe.then whenever i used to get angry to him and hurt him saying bad things he started biting me but would apologize.And I wanted to breakup with him even more.I wasn’t really love with him at that time ,I used to judge him based on looks.Sometimes h used to look good and sometimes not.He even blackmailed
 me to protect our relationship.Then after some time I made him to promise not to be violent with me and I won’t fight eveyday.Then my love for him started growing.But i had lots of mood swings, fight in small things.He gots lots of busy in work.Then we had long distance relationship.He never cheated on me and I never cheated on him.We both had trust for each other.But we had fight for small things started by me because I wanted him to give me more time,i wanted his attention,love,care.And he has stopped giving efforts in our relationship.He would block me whenever I tried to fight and  and have a conversation with him.In the past he used to beg me me to reunite but nowadays it’s me .We breakup like about 100th of time .We both know we are not good for each other but I can’t let go of him.We recently had our breakup yesterday but I can’t let go of him

Breakup

me and my boyfriend are in a relationship from the past 4years now, its been great, he's the nicest guy I've known. So earlier in our relationship he told me that its really difficult for him to open up and talk about whatever he is feeling... I tried to understand him and I thought as time will pass he will be able to open up to me, which he did... he told me stuff about himself which he hasn't told anybody before. although when it comes to day to day life, he cant seem to upfrontly tell me if something is bugging him or hes been struggling with some emotions.... which leads to confusion in our relationship.
basically the issue now is that he cant speak to me about his feelings and it sort of is my need in a relationship to speak to eachother to feel connected to him.
I have been sort of patient for 4 years thinking he would talk to me, but he can barely speak about his feelings like once in a blue moon. I am scared if he will ever be able to talk to me or will I just be wasting my time in the hope of him trying to speak to me about his feelings and his real self.
should I be more patient or should I move on?
he does say he is trying and he loves me alot and I love him too but I'm just scared what if he is not the kind of person who will ever enjoy speaking about himself? 

My boyfriend of 7 months and I just broke up. It’s hard to put it all into words right now, but what I can say is that I did not see it coming. I am his first girlfriend - his first everything. 
We are both in college and whenever we go home, we always talk about each other to our parents all the time. Things took a turn for the worst. He talked about me so much that his parents had a conversation with him about how you should never settle too early in your relationship/life, and that you should explore more of what’s out there (what other people have to offer). 
We sat down together, and he told me that he thinks that they’re right. It broke me. 7 months of memories gone. Because he wants to see more of what’s out there. He tells me he still loves me and wants to continue making memories, however he knows for sure that he wants to meet new people and see what they have to offer when he goes to graduate school. 
I feel abandoned and can’t help but think “What’s wrong with me?” that he isn’t happy with what we have right now and what we can potentially have in the future. We co-existed so well, lived our lives independently, and toxicity was never an issue. I was so blind. How did I not see this coming? 7 months of memories thrown away just because I’m his first. I can’t help but think about what I was lacking, why I wasn’t good enough for him to continue being with me. I’m so hurt.

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