So I met this guy 3 months ago and we’ve talked every single day. He’s so f nice and very consistent person. I like him the way he is periodt, and that pushed me to test him which I really regret forever. I insisted to stop the talking many times (I didn’t like the idea trust me) I’m just tryna get him by this trap. Second time around i asked him he didn’t reply and just ignored me, I contacted him through instagram and asked if we should stop and he replied yes that he wanted to focus with himself for now and the responsibilities. Two days passed he contacted me again and apologized for what he did, he explained why it triggered him to do so and just pretended nothing happened. The day after I didn’t reply to his text message and just let the day passed to breath and to think if should stay . I decided to stay and talk to him again and to start with I texted saying “good morning “ tbh i was hurt by his replies. He acted so cold and he starts calling me “bro” tbh it’s weird lol. I’m quiet sensitive so I suggested to just stop for the better, he didn’t reply but he contacted me the day after saying he will be on a trip and he will text me when he gets back. 2 weeks passed he didn’t replied, I saw his posts on insta that he was on a trip with his family. I initiated to contact him and he responds so cold that i dont know him anymore. I stopped. It hurts knowing I know I made a mistake. I pushed him away from me. I told him what I feel and the only thing he said was he seeing himself getting attached so he reacted by distancing. I- seriously was just starring his message to digest whats goin on and I reacted by cutting ties with him and we exchanged gbyes cos that’s what I want. Now 2 and half week passed I contacted him again (toxic duh) just to let him know I missed him and he replied he misses me too. Idk just wanna share this thats all. Thank you for reading until here. I know this is boring but ugh i just wanted someone to talk to rn that’s all
your action to cut ties with him was right. I think you need to start do things that could distract u from thinking abt him. Its for your good. if he would look for you months after or more maybe u can talk if both of u wanted to start it all over again. If no, life must go on. there must be someone better than him for you. ✨
Thank you this helped a lot!!!
