So I met a person few months back…and he actually understood me very well…I even shared my problems with him and he has always tried to console me with his words but now all of a sudden he seems different like he doesn’t msg me or replies me late…idk what to do…I even asked him multiple time that if there’s anything wrong he can tell me…but he said everything’s fine…should I keep msging him or just let things flow as it is??
You are getting replaced by someone else!
I’m so damn replaceable yaar…that it hurts…but yeah I was thinking about the same thing…everyone just replaced me with someone else…haha not the first time its happening with me…
I will tell you the reason behind it. He might have started developing feelings for you but you may have friendzoned him so now he is trying to ghost you to kill his feelings. Seen many people do the same!
Don’t message him. I’ve encountered these kind of people in my life and it’s not a good news. First they act like they care about you a lot, give everything that you want emotionally. Make you believe that you need them. And one day they just stop. Then you become needy, you message them, ask them what’s wrong.
Its a tactic, very nasty one.
Some of these people are victims themselves, they don’t understand what they are doing either.
Just let this person go. Don’t get emotionally involved. Don’t keep thinking about why they stopped talking and all. Just let go.
Yesss I was thinking about letting go…I was just confused…btw thank you🥺but it still gonna hurt…and I know I can hadle it😊
I too think so… I have a person who’s really so good and comfort to speak to. But I don’t know if this will happen to me. I need to take care right ? But how can I? That person is really irreplaceable type 😣
Is he doing the same thing?? Like ignoring you and stuff…if he is then let him go…but if he’s not doing anything like that then Don’t overthink…this person can turn out to be the right one…just don’t trust anyone blindly…
Yes it’ll hurt. But this hurt is less than all the emotional exploitation they’ll do if you fall for their mind games. Tumhari help ki achha kia. Just thank them and let go. You’ll get over it in no time. Focus on other parts of your life.
And I read your other comments, don’t think so low of yourself. You aren’t replaceable like that. Such lack of self belief is what gets us entangled with these people. Believe that you deserve the basic respect in life. If someone is not treating you that way then it says a lot about them than you. Don’t you ever blame yourself. Please take care. Walk away from people who don’t treat you with basic human decency.
kd @kdd
Rightly said.
Woah🥺🥺🥺thank you so much…You’re right I shouldn’t let myself down…You actually said the words I needed to hear…thank you I’ll keep those words in my mind🥺🥺🥺🥺
I am not in a relationship with him tho… But he’s very comfort to talk to. He is a good listener and myself being so too spend good times talking but the posts related to ignorance makes me insecure 🥺
Don’t message him until he clears things with you. Good for you. Stop giving him attention and be busy with your own work.
That’s what I am going to do…btw thanks😌I thought I was doing him wrong so I just cane here to write about it…now my thoughts are clear…thank y’all
rag @rag17
I would like to say maybe he is in a social disconnect phase.
If you are sure there is not any other women involved but if it is you are being replaced
I never force him to talk with me everyday and stuff but all I want him to just tell me the thing…and then he can do whatever he wants but rather than doing that he just ignores my text or replies late
rag @rag17
Which platform do you use to talk with him?insta?
kd @kdd
Think what would happen if you focused this much time and energy on yourself. Live your life, you’re missing out on so many fun experiences! And as far as he’s concerned, just let him be. Let him do whatever he wants. There are plenty of good guys out there. You’ll find someone much better easily.
Yeah…I’ll try to figure things out…thank you:)
rag @rag17
Yess you will good luck
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Spot on 🙏🙌
Yes
Does he always reply to you if he is online
