So I have came across toooo many people in my life who asks me to let go this relationship which I am since 5 years now !! And it’s like from the very beginning the frnds I had the frnds I lost the frnds I have all asked me to just cut this crab !!! But the only issue comes here is how !? Idk how am I suppose to control my emotions for this particular guy I have been in love with , though Idk do I still actually love him after what we have been went through!!! This relationship has been toxic as hell from the beginning itself still I ignored all the red flags he had or all the red flags this relationship had / has !!!
Yes , I did loose tooo many good infact the best people because they just asked me to leave this person!!! Idk why from day one I was / am so much into him ! Even though he did Nthg so very special to me I guess ! Idk maybe he did , but when I think about it I rarely get points to actually think of !!! My life has been so fucked maybe because of him !
My all decisions my all thoughts always roamed around what he use to think !! Not now though but still sometimes maybe no not actually! But then this things comes in my mind that he’ll not like it ! But then damn it’s my life why did I gave my life to someone who is not able to figure out what he wants to do or what he is doing 😓
How am I supposed to stop thinking of him and start thinking of only myself!!!
Why do I have a fear of loosing him , even when I should not because maybe he’s not understanding what I want or need in my life !
Ughhh too many questions, I’m so confused about each and every thing now !
Figuratively, there is nothing left you are just pushing yourself so the best thing is to confront and if he agrees then okay or if he acts differently then you’ll have one more reason and ik move isn’t easy but with the time you’ll get better and might find someone who will help you in rising and yes please trust the process.
Ikr !! But how to start the process of letting it go
First of all try to stay calm and don’t think too much about it, just write down honestly whatever you are feeling and prefer not to filter that and then accumulate all your pain or suffering and confront him cause you simply don’t deserve all this. And by letting go don’t force yourself just take sometime and indulge yourself in something to stay as busy as much… Yes it sounds like escaping but this works really.
Yes , I think I should start writing everything that I feel ! And just confront him about everything that has always been on my mind! If he understands then fine or else I should Atleast try to focus on keeping myself busy in something!!!
Thanks a lot I felt better I guess !
Yes!! All the best. Go Lil’ rockstar God bless you
First of all write all the questions some where and then try to find the answers
I know the answer but it’s not going anywhere! I want him I have him but I want to let this go !!
It’s just so complicated
Well see in life you have to take tough and hard decision of letting go people so make a firm decision either let him go or be with him.
Uhh it’s really very difficult to let go someone I love the most I guess ! But this is the time…it’s so heartbreaking but yaaa we need to grow individually maybe that would lead us to success!!
Thanks
Well it will be difficult to take this step when we had invested so much into something but on the other hand we also have to see that what we had invested for happiness is just turning out to be opposite of happiness then for what we are still there to get hurt and pain.
