So… I have been wondering if I should get a divorce. There is too much trauma in my relationship most of it is unintentionally but trauma is trauma… And i dont feel my partner is putting an effort… A lot of gaslighting… I actually feel worthless in the relationship… Gives me a bit of depression to be honest… I feel 10 years old and broken sometimes… I wish me and my partner met later on in life but we didn’t and it doesn’t seem to work out… I want to so bad… We go to therapy and i am trying but he puts minimum effort… Maybe thats all he can do but I feel lonely especially in my struggles… I just got surgery and he calls me lazy for laying down… I dont know what ghe right thing to do is… We have a daughter and she loves us both so much… I dont know what to do… 😭
Heyyy, so obviously I don’t know the facts or anything about what you’re going through, but all I can say is- do what makes you happy. I know you have a daughter and you want her to have a good family life, but then again, as long as you’re not happy, she wont be able to nourish either. As for your husband, um, did you try telling him about how you feel? Maybe he’ll change his mind? Because as a law student, i know that divorces can get pretty messy if they’re not consensual :/ but anyway, I hope whatever decision you make brings you the utmost peace and happiness. Much power to you <3
Divorce is a big step !!! Go for a vacation!!! Try to take a break from daily life !! Go alone Like If you can’t got to a tourist place go to your mom’s house or go to some religious places for introspection!!! Clam your mind and explain him how you feel If he listens to you and understands you give this relationship a try !!!
If he is still emotionally unavailable than sis it is useless to be with him !!