So I finally deleted their numbers, archived their chats, Uninstalled the app where we used to talk and I am finally moving on. PS: Guys, never waste your time on toxic people. They just aren’t worth it. When they hurt you and blame you for being hurt or when they give you examples of how other things are way more serious and you are overreacting, you are in a toxic group. Value your feelings and never let anyone invalidate them. People like the ones I had in my life aren’t worth keeping. They beg you to come back and then they start once again. Self love is important. Never miss out on that. I have realized the hard way that I am happier alone. I just regret wasting my time on them when I could.have connected with other beautiful people. Take care and be careful of the people you meet here guys
Those are signs of narcissistic people.
Theres no use even trying to make them understand that they hurt you they’ll hurt one day then act like nothing happened the next day but give you shit for simply defending yourself from their abuse.
Best way to deal is no contact never let them in again they dont “love” you they just use you as supply for their narcissism.
Took me long to understand that but im healing
Yeah dude. The problem is that they act all worried and shower me with compliments everytime I try to leave. So this time I just silently disappeared and closed the doors. I ain’t letting them in. I had enough of trash in my life. And it was time that I threw the trash out. There’s something very wrong when you get happier at the thought of them not being around you.
Yk what, search Dr. Ramani on youtube. She explains narcissistic behaviour clearly and also how to get over the feelings of insecurity and guilt after it ends. it’ll match with what you said and you’ll understand their behaviour better. Also never fall for the lovebombing its a very common method used by narcissists
I have gotten over my guilt. That’s why I could muster the courage to walk away. Not falling for the love bombing. I will definitely watch Dr Ramani’s videos. Btw they told me that I should be grateful that I was with them coz people are worse outside and in the outside world, nobody will even listen to my voice lol. I really wanted to tell them ‘what’s the difference then between outside world and close friends?’
Yup they try to belittle you lower your self worth and all. Well here’s a good thing for you-
Narcissistic people always target people with high emotional intelligence because they’re jealous almost obsessed with us as a person, on finding they can never be like us they resort to destroying us instead if you ever had an incident where they acted happy that you were feeling hurt but later said they were acting they were not they enjoy it its their fuel. they use our suffering to not worry about their own thus feeling better its what is termed as supply for the narcissist by professionals
I am happy I could walk away from them. Phew.
I know what you mean lol, its so peaceful
All their lovebombing did affect me tho i craved affection for quite a while but i had some screenshots of my conversations with them id see and instantly feel relieved i left them whenever i missed the good times
Yep. Even I have taken the screenshots and kept it. Not going back.
Great! Stay strong🤜🤛
Cheers to us!!! To new beginnings.
Cheers!
Gone through the same they tried to reach and like idk what happened to me their messages just didn’t bothered me because i got to know about my worth. Love yourself guys🤍
Yeah it’s easier when you realize your worth. You understand that the battle you are fighting is just not worth it. Toxic people can only give you toxicity. I feel so relieved. No matter what happens I won’t go back. Enough is enough. To hell with their calls and texts. They deserve each other. Phew.
Its hurts and feels like a relieve at the same time but you’ll find more beautiful kind hearted and people who know your worth understand you and treat you better in your life❤
Yeah. I do have people like that. I will be focusing more on them now.
