Srishti @sris
It is okay we all feel like that at some point of life. And it is normal.
‘Normal’ is what is sought about for feeling ‘justified’ in ones thoughts/feelings/actions. Resist seeking 'normal, and connect with your higher ‘heart-sense’ or ‘God-self’. Accept and celebrate joy in others, and you will connect with that which was promised to you…
Ik it’s hard but i can tell u an incident my best friend a person who is more important than own life a person like that came in a relationship just a day go… When I heard that he was in an official relationship I was really happy for him but a scared feeling was there in me that i will be left alone if he too leaves like others bcz he may need time to give her better half… That moment when I felt sad it was not bcz I was jealous its just that some time we feel soo alone we too think to have a person by our side but we can’t actually handel relationship bcz of our personal reasons my reason is that i feel I am not qualified love for me love is fake that’s the reason… At the end Ik it may feel like jealousy but it isn’t actually… It’s the loneliness which makes u think soo
Its absolutely okay to feel a little bit low when you acknowledge that something that you consider as good, is missing from your life and you are just bound to observe it from the outside. I wouldnt call it jealousy, I may say its fear of missing out? Just just feeling alone at best. And its 100% normal. We relate to everything we can, be it happy things or sad.
Jealousy would be have been you feeling sad + low key pissed/angry about that one particular thing. I think thats how it works… you are not only sad when you jealous, you want it to happen to you first or just relatively in a better context than the one you are comparing it with.
Zak Puckett @ztothephour
its a natural feeling, and naturally uncomfortable, its a sign of being a good person i think lol. as llong as you can stay happy for them and not change it to envy, its nothing to judge yourself by. everyone has their path and things arrive at different times for everyone. depending on your you manage your point of view, it can all be for a reason, just remember, everything is currently out of context, never know how things will turn out.
