So I don't know in what mood I'm currently! Like I'm neither happy nor sad ..back then I lost my two favorite friends that I know I'll never get them back! Describing the one ...is just because he couldn't balance between me and his new friend.! I knewed him from like 8 months ..we used to talk much much on calls do video calls snap each other every now n then and suddenly he got into his new friend into so much that over time he forgot my emotions! I got an emotional breakdown a worse one..that I didn't expected! N now we are neither calling neither texting.... He says now he has his own attitude whenever people will come he'll be into them otherwise not ...last call he said that I should have taken the initiative to start over again but I really don't know if he's into it or I really should take initiative and what talk should I do with him..


Anxiety

Wow!! So this friend used me as a personal therapist and vented to me about all the mental health issues and personal life problems that he was dealing with, irl and online. He did this for more than three months and now that he doesn't have any more issues (because I helped him work them all out) he doesn't even talk to me anymore! I know that he was just using me but it still hurts because I had genuine feelings for him. >:(

Frustration

I like someone outside of my caste pretty sure he too likes me but we aren't dating aren't just frnds then he said if i can dste someone else of my caste... i said sure u can but now only ik how broke and painful it is feeling... wish guys could give one thing that is loyalty but loyalty is very rare nowadays

Boyfriend

A month ago I left my boyfriend who I’ve been with for almost 8 years. It was my choice to leave, but when I did, I found out that he was talking to his ex. 
I wanted to leave him for so many reasons before I found out about her, but... now that I know I was easily replaced, my head is completely fucked up. Why didn’t he want me? What did I do wrong? Why does no one love me or care about me?

I moved back home, and now when I cry my own mom ignores me and leaves the room just like he did. Am I expecting people to care about me too much? Is this life? If so, I don’t want it. It hurts too much 

Lonely

Stuck between "I really wanna talk to him" and "I really wanna get over from him"

Confusion

I have been meeting a guy, we are on good talking terms. But occasionally, he invests so much emotionally. He does not behave like it's a new interaction , so it should be light and gradual understanding of each other, rather he displays different moods. He's suddenly sad, or angry, or doesn't talk and expects me to take his excuses and be okay(even when I am not his friend or gf or anything, the conversations have just started a fortnight ago). I hate putting so much emotional labour in him. Why am I entitled to his mood swings ? He is so emotionally unstable. I think he would ghost me suddenly because he stops talking abruptly these days. I don't understand how to deal with this. It is choking me

Relationships

He likes me, he treats me like his girlfriend. But he doesn’t shares his thoughts, his daily life routine with me. On top of that, he expects me to ask him about his day, his life, his work. (Even if he doesn’t wants to share, he wants me to ask) He would give me cold replies on chats but is totally happy and romantic person on calls and offline dates.
What do I do? Should I stop talking to him? How do I handle it?


Need genuine advice guys 

I was in a relationship with a guy from last 3 years, i was madly in love with him. Infact he promised me that he will talk to his parents regarding the marriage and all as we both are 27 age but suddenly out of nowhere in February he told my father is not well ( he might again get paralysis attack ) and he wants me to get married in next 2 months, he told me he talked to his parents but they didn't approved also they asked him to leave his job though we both were earning quite well had a good career then he got married last week but now i feel cheated was he playing with my feelings did he ever wanted to get married to me or.  it's all lie that he talked to his parents about me about his job also i don't know as in IT sector it's still wfh i don't whether the reason he gave me is true or not  if it's true than i am ready to back out but what  if he lied to me regarding job his marriage i could not understand what to do i love him so much feeling so depressed it's feels like killing myself without him Could not understand what to do. Genuine advice needed guys i know he can't come to me back but atleast i deserve truth how to find about his job and whether he really loved me 

Breakup

I don't know how to start. I am in a relationship with a guy from 2021. I am his 1st girlfriend but i had boyfriends in my past. My boyfriend has a super anger issue, super OCD, and super possessive. I don't know how i am handling it because every time we are trying to converse we fight Sometimes it's so intense that it becomes a mental pressure to me. He never understands my feelings at all. We both are doing CA. I always try to manage time to spend time with him but he was never happy , he always complains that  he is so tired i am not understanding him i am trying to just give priority to only myself. There are a lot of problems i cant finish that over one paragraph i might need 100 paragraphs. But I dont want to lose him. How can I solve it 

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