So I come from a strict family. like very strict. Right now Iโm on my verge of completing 18 and as a girl still my mother doesnโt allow me to go out. Like as I donโt have many friends, I donโt go out. but even if I want to go I have to rebel with her as Iโm allowed with particular distance only and calling her time to time is necessary. sometimes sheโs like โYโall should learn to speak confidently outsideโ but doesnโt even allow to go out. Iโm thinking of starting
to rebel more or else my life will be around a noose
Bruh, this is same with me. My parents want me to be confident and learn to fight with the world on my own, but they never allowed me go out. Maybe now Iโll get a bit freedom as Iโm joining college in different city. That might help!
exactly you should. And because of this Strictness lying is the only thing I learnt. if you donโt lie, you wonโt be allowed.
I agree with you, but donโt lie to them if you want to go out. Communicate to them about how you feel. Whenever you want to hangout with your friends ask one of your friend to talk to your mom about plans.
yaa I need to take baby steps but thatโll be helpful as hell
Yes, you go buddy!!
Sanket @sanket
Rebel is exactly the thing which you do not have to do, instead, you have to take this politely and make them understand why it is necessary to go out and experience.
Parallelly you need to assure them as well
yess I think I will have to start doing thatโจ
surbhi Rajput @isur
Talk to them about how you feel? Make them understand that you can handle yourself on your own. Start from taking baby steps. Being rebel and doing things out of it might feel good but it isnโt permanent. Making them understand is a long process but it is permanent.
yess I think thatโs the only solution which will be helpful rn