So I come from a strict family. like very strict. Right now I’m on my verge of completing 18 and as a girl still my mother doesn’t allow me to go out. Like as I don’t have many friends, I don’t go out. but even if I want to go I have to rebel with her as I’m allowed with particular distance only and calling her time to time is necessary. sometimes she’s like ‘Y’all should learn to speak confidently outside’ but doesn’t even allow to go out. I’m thinking of starting
to rebel more or else my life will be around a noose
Bruh, this is same with me. My parents want me to be confident and learn to fight with the world on my own, but they never allowed me go out. Maybe now I’ll get a bit freedom as I’m joining college in different city. That might help!
exactly you should. And because of this Strictness lying is the only thing I learnt. if you don’t lie, you won’t be allowed.
I agree with you, but don’t lie to them if you want to go out. Communicate to them about how you feel. Whenever you want to hangout with your friends ask one of your friend to talk to your mom about plans.
yaa I need to take baby steps but that’ll be helpful as hell
Yes, you go buddy!!
Rebel is exactly the thing which you do not have to do, instead, you have to take this politely and make them understand why it is necessary to go out and experience.
Parallelly you need to assure them as well
yess I think I will have to start doing that✨
surbhi Rajput @isur
Talk to them about how you feel? Make them understand that you can handle yourself on your own. Start from taking baby steps. Being rebel and doing things out of it might feel good but it isn’t permanent. Making them understand is a long process but it is permanent.
yess I think that’s the only solution which will be helpful rn