So I came out as a bisexual in September, 2020. Not to the world, just a bunch of friends. They are all pretty supportive and have been amazing. Except a few, they’re kinda homophobic but I don’t think they realise it. But it’s fine, the journey so far has been good. There are ups and downs but that’s okay.
Recently, I realised that I was genderfluid. People have been accepting when it came to my sexuality but I don’t know how they’re gonna respond/react if I tell them about my gender orientation. I have no expectations but I am so scared to even tell my closest of friends about it. Worst of all, I hate having to hide myself or being in a closet. It feels like suppressing a part of me.
it’s okay to be a bisexual. [ gender equality] I guess it should be supported more to ppl like you than women. I know it’s hard for other ppl to accept this they become judgmental and start maintaining distance and say toxic. but u have to stand strong ! and being attracted to any gender is our choice and its not a sin god made it like this. wish u the best ahead in life!
Thank you for reaching out to me
Hi!
See our parents are quite old school for this. I am bisexual too
My parents dont know about this
But i know i expect the worst reaction from them
I know this is not easy for them to accept because of their culture and the main bitch “SOCIETY”.
one day they will understand us and
Accept the fact that we choose to be this way!
The journey is tough but 100% worth.
Hii, I really hope things get better and this world starts its journey to be a better place as well
Well first off I’m so proud of you for coming out, it takes real courage to do so. You mentioned that most of them are pretty supportive but a few aren’t, well to those few fuck them well not actually but if possible educate them because that’s the only way people will be more accepting of the queer community. Secondly since you are gender fluid, do you mind if I ask you your pronouns because I don’t want to say the wrong thing. Maybe you could start by telling the friends who were supportive of you being bisexual, if you are scared of how they will react again educate them. Most people are not aware of gender fluidity. I’m sure once you explain to them they will be extremely supportive of you. I know the feeling of being closeted, it feels like you are trapped in this black and white world and all you want is to show the world the colorful person you are. I am proud you and know that you matter.
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Hi, my pronouns are she/he. Honestly, I even wonder if that makes sense? Like do people w she/he exist? I’ve come across she/they, he/they and they/them. But is she/he valid?
yes love she/he are completely valid. Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t that what gender fluidity is sometimes you express your male self and sometimes your female self. We don’t see any gender fluid representation in media and hence we just assume she/he is not a thing but it is. The only place where I’ve come across a gender fluid character was a book series I read. So to answer your question yes it makes sense, yes people with pronouns she/he exist and you my friend are extremely valid.
