So I broke up with my boyfriend but few months later we got back together. During that time he made one friend. He told me she’s his family friend but it never came up when were together For 4 years before the breakup. So now when we’re back together. They are still talking which is okay but he never told me about her other than that one time. I feel so insecure because she’s slimmer than me but more than that my boyfriend comments on her pictures publicly. And never comments on mine. Never. Even tho I pointed out this to him but he just laughed away. He also uses the same emoji he use with me with that specific flower emoji. I’m feeling insecure and agry at the same time. I will not address to him directly but i know it will bother me for 2 more days which will eventually turn into a silent conversation. Like what to do??? He even asked to cut off my ties with my recent ex publicly which i did. But like what am I supposed to feel???
The same case happen with me. My girlfriend did the same things that your boyfriend does.
What did you do then
It is okay to feel insecure in this situation. If he is addressing her as his friend then maybe she is just a friend. And if he love you he won’t do anything that hurt you. Yes! But checking him time to time is not wrong and trusting your boyfriend blindly is also not good. Trust him but not blindly.
Yeah i agree but it happens when he knows that this thing is bothering me , still it happens