So I am in collegeā¦being alone hurts a lotā¦I have no friends whom I can rely onā¦I always manage everything on my own but this time itās something that is hurtingā¦One of my classmates is growing super toxic for me. She is the one I spent in the 1st month of my college life, which has given me a lot of traumaā¦I am not able to connect with anyone in my class because of herā¦ It is so traumatic I am not able to make friends and I developed social anxietyā¦She is still in my life for the past 6 months, I tried to cut her off from my life many times but still she shows up every timeā¦she comments on the dress I wearā¦she wants to make sure that everyone in my class gets to know that I am dumbā¦She wants all the attention and she really makes me feel so badā¦I want to handle this matter maturely by talking to her about this but she is so immature that I know how she will handle thisā¦And I donāt want to make her against me as wellā¦not by the fact that she got so many people to support herā¦but I choose not to waste my energy on herā¦We will be classmates for the next 3 years so thatās the reason as wellā¦
If you try to confront a narcissist itās only going to backfire. Given that sheās attention seeking she might go around talking shit about you.
Iād say the best is to ignore her. When you stop giving them attention and focus on your own growth, thatās when their supply is cut. You are doing a smart thing by not wasting your time on her. Make your life so amazing that her presence doesnāt impact you. Of course itās much difficult to implement since youāre classmates. But give it a shot.
Just know that you got yourself. No matter what she speaks in public, people always find out the truth and stay with the ones that have a kind heart. You are a good person and you need to have faith in yourself. All the best mate. šš»
