So, I admitted to my two best friends that I’m pan. They and I were talking about how we would react if our kids came out to us and how we would love for our kids to date eachother. Then my guy friend, Eli, asked my boyfriend how he would react if his children came out to him. Eli said that my boyfriend went on about the bible. Don’t get me wrong, I do believe in God, but I don’t believe that choosing who u like is a decision. When my boyfriend asked me what my thoughts were, I told him I would support my child because I don’t want to be that person in my child’s life who makes him/her feel like they shouldn’t be that way. He told me he agreed but he said that he just hopes that the child knows what they’re getting into. And me knowing his friends, I know what he’s trying to say but doesn’t say it upfront because he doesn’t want to seem like he disagrees.
Can’t change everybody’s thoughts. And accepting yourself is the best thing to do. So let the people think what they want. You stay on your awesome thoughts. Change is slow. But it’s happening.