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So Hereโ€™s the shit!
I give my all when I try to woo a girl, and at that moment it feels like she is the oneโ€ฆ But when I get in relationship with her, I start losing interestโ€ฆ It doesnโ€™t have to do anything with physicality or intimacy of relation but I feel like I get thrill from the chase and when itโ€™s done, I lose interest tooโ€ฆ
Am I messed up?

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Anonymous
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How long do u take before u start to woo a girl?

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Depends on the girl

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Anonymous
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Stillโ€ฆ What is the longest time you took?

The Edits @savagely_yours

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So there should be a mutual trust n respect between me nd the girl before I start making a moveโ€ฆ After tht maybe a week or 2 at most

The Edits @savagely_yours

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But how does that even matter?

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Try not to woo a girl for at least a month or 2 and with mutual trust and respect try to take a bit more time and get to know her betterโ€ฆ If she is the one not matter how long you take sheโ€™ll be there for youโ€ฆ
This is my thoughtโ€ฆ

The Edits @savagely_yours

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I will try itโ€ฆ Though I m damn impulsive so i dont know if it will actually work

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Iโ€™m suggesting this because Iโ€™ve seen someone who did same thing as u mentioned and he tried this and it workedโ€ฆ
So it depends on uโ€ฆ Still Iโ€™ll recommend u try this at least onceโ€ฆ
Hopefully it will workโ€ฆ ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Yeahโ€ฆ I hope so tooโ€ฆ Thnks a alot sir/mam

Jessica Shah @jessshah46

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Youโ€™re very welcome sir/mam

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Wooju @wooju

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Just think about it and get an answer for this question. What made you woo her or fall for her?

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Well I have tried thisโ€ฆ Thatโ€™s how I know problem is with me and not the girlโ€ฆ Because she was the same as the day I met her it was me who lost interest

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Wooju @wooju

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So what are you expecting in a relationship?

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Just stability and transparencyโ€ฆ Rest all i can manage

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Wooju @wooju

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And before you expect this from the other person are you ready to be stable and transparent or have you ever been like that

The Edits @savagely_yours

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I have been transparent thatโ€™s for sureโ€ฆ Though I havenโ€™t been stable cuz as I said alot of time alreadyโ€ฆ I lose interest as soon as the chase is overโ€ฆ But I have never cheated on a girlโ€ฆ Or even lied to woo her or give some foolish reason for break upโ€ฆ That just is not me

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Wooju @wooju

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Stability find the reason for stability not for being transparent

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Thatโ€™s the whole point of this post sir/mamโ€ฆ Thatโ€™s what I have been asking myself why canโ€™t I be stable ? Why do I lose interest in someone whom I thought to b the one so easily! But thx for the help anyway

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Wooju @wooju

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I said you the reason boss insecurity is the reason where you are not being stable โ€ฆ

The Edits @savagely_yours

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What possibly cud I be insecure of?? Like that doesnโ€™t make sense to meโ€ฆ

The Edits @savagely_yours

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I am not some washed up cheap chep pervert who canโ€™t get girlsโ€ฆ I know m financially stableโ€ฆ I know m physically goodโ€ฆ I know the girl m with loves me Or atleast thats what she thinksโ€ฆ What cud be the reason then?

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Wooju @wooju

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Insecure about yourself may be the way you be with her or the way you want someone to be the way you potray yourself the way you look the work you do it might be any tiny thought which you might not even know makes you feel loose intrest on other person

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Wooju @wooju

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I never said you are someone like thatโ€ฆbro I am just trying to help you donโ€™t get it wrong I donโ€™t ever judge any person though

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Arey nahhโ€ฆ I m not offended or anythingโ€ฆ I was actually stating obvious reason to be insecureโ€ฆ Nd since I donโ€™t have any of thoseโ€ฆ I just tryna figure outโ€ฆ What cud it b

The Edits @savagely_yours

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But this will surely take time nd sir/mam thanks for ur help but dont want you to invest so much of ur time over hereโ€ฆ I might seem clingy to yaโ€ฆ So maybe till next time

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Wooju @wooju

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If you are sure about you are not insecure about anything Then you might have never tried to love that person. Maybe you thought you loved that person but ended up only Liking them.

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Wooju @wooju

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Just call sweety and itโ€™s okay Iโ€™m not wasting any time it would be great if you find an answer At least I would feel happy that i helped a friend

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Ohh just like that schooltime infatuation that used to feel like turu lob ๐Ÿ˜‚ but at the end was just attractionโ€ฆ That might actually be it

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Wooju @wooju

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As I said yeah it might be an attraction

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Donโ€™t mind if I keep calling u mam instead of sweety cuz uh know if we wana stay anonymous then the best way is by not even taking a single stepโ€ฆ

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Yeahโ€ฆ Finally a sensible conclusion โ€ฆ Really thx alot for that mamโ€ฆ Needed it!

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Wooju @wooju

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Yeah what ever you call I donโ€™t mind

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Wooju @wooju

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See in a relationship all you need to be yourself and accept your partner how ever they are and same goes for themโ€ฆas u said u were not able to be transparent find the reason for thatโ€ฆ Because the thought or feelings you have right now is because of insecure feeling. Not the insecurity about the girl but yourself.

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Yoโ€ฆ I think u didnโ€™t read it properlyโ€ฆ I said I have been transparent cuz thatโ€™s the only way to live I knowโ€ฆ

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Wooju @wooju

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Yes i misread it sorry for that

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Wooju @wooju

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Tell me one thing do you love yourself?

The Edits @savagely_yours

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Ohh hell yeah

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