Try to engage yourself in something else or speak to someone else when you think of contacting her. This helps in the initial stages if you’ve had your closure.
Just do the things that makes yuh happy give yourself some time love nd… care nd… just think about it how much she /he hurt you so it’s better to move on i know it hurts but self respect is more important then love it’s a really hard time all day u just miss him /her u want to talk with her/him but remember everything is gonna be fine… Time heals everything nd…take care of yourself ❤️
That’s a bit of the problem we never hurt each other and the distance was the only problem. That’s what’s making it extra tough.
And she is saying she really wants to have contact with me, because she still likes me, but I thought it would be better for me to take a few days off contact.
Really tough tho