So guys I am dating a guy since 3 months now and we have alot of quarrels feel I am a problematic person and he’s understood me way enough I keep frustrating him I legit feel he deserves a better girl cause I am just making him unhappy the person I love is the same person who is hurt by me he’s cried real bad for alot of times now idk what should I do I so wanna be with him but I feel I am just ruining his life giving him stress should I back out for good (typing this brings me tears) that guy is super loving so hurting him is a crime I feel but I am so complicated ughhh guys suggestions please…
Remember this, if you truly like/love each other, I’m sure you’ll feel happy being with them despite the bad days, or problems of your significant other. No relationship is rainbow and sunshine. In my opinion, even with your problems he’s still with you, I think he really cares for you and leaving him would not be good for him.
However as you said that you sometimes hurt him which ofc is not good for him, I think you should talk to him and give yourself a little break, heal yourself, help yourself
Black widow @shreya0208
You should watch yourself and work on yourself! You know where the problem lies…it lies within you so try to make it better. Human can change themselves.
Anonymous @na_bi1103
Every relationship starts off with the rainbows and happy phase but soon enough when that ends, the real part of the relationship comes. And at that point of time whether the two of u choose to work on it or not, is your decision. This phase of the relationship is the hardest and it will be difficult but if you and your significant other work through it all then you’ll come out stronger. But then again this takes place in a non toxic environment. If you feel your relationship is becoming toxic for him and you too, then that’s a different story entirely. Otherwise if you both can talk to eachother properly by focusing on communication then your relationship will definitely become better, than it is now.
If he really was the nice guy he would not let you think that you’re the bad one in the relationship. You should work on yourself always remember you’re great
Sanket @sanket
Dont break because of quarrels.
Put some efforts to solve them.
Everyone in this world is problematic you need to stop believing that you are complicated or unworthy of being loved.
