So currently I am a neet dropperā¦
So basically I cleared neet in my first attempt with a very decent scoreā¦
I got good government colleges in my city and 2-3 decent college out of my city tooā¦
But I didnāt wanted to do my MBBS in my city because I wanted to move out from my family because itās very chaotic nature of my house there are fights everytimeā¦
So when the colleges were givenā¦
I got one in delhi and one in Puneā¦but my parents donāt want me to send outside to study because they think ladki bigad jaayegi and sheāll make boyfriend and do drinking and allā¦they told this to my aunty and my cousin heard it and told meā¦bit they told me that the college I have got is not good and better I continue in my city onlyā¦
So I told them Iāll give neet again and then will a better college but now I am regretting itā¦but I wanted to go out of this hell houseā¦but theyāll not send me and also the education in my city is not that good
I told them mujhe kota jana hai in 11th still they didnāt agreeā¦
And if I do mbbs in my city Iāll still have to be stuck here for 5-6 years which I donāt wantā¦I want independenceā¦
I seriously thought in 10th ke bas ab ek saal inko jhel lete haiā¦fir 11th me socha chalo 2 saal aur tolerate kr lete haiā¦fir finally Iāll be freeā¦but I canāt do this anymore yaarā¦
Maine boht baar bola but they told you canāt go anywhere aur jana hai to mummy aur bhai ko sath me leke jaoā¦but unse hi to mujhe alag hona haiā¦
I donāt know what to doā¦mujhe lagta hai iss baar bhi mere city ke bahar ka acha college nhi milegaā¦
I canāt live here for 5 years anymore
. @somesortofpanda
donāt worry! only way out is that you study hard. you need to work hard to get what you want. just know that thereās no easy way to get what you want. you need to prove to your parents that sooner or later, they have to let you go. it is better they do it sooner.
okay first of all they are your parents and vo jaise bhii ho tumhare parents hi h
itās okay if they care too much for you they donāt want you to go outside your hometown for education no issue
just prepare for your NEET exam if you can score good marks once then you can also score great marks this time too donāt worry just believe in yourself and prepare for your exam
and if you want to convince your parents for letting you go outside hometown for education firstly clear NEET exam then go to your dad and have audacity to speak with him just tell him ke what you want , tell him I want better education I got better college I want to explore the outside world please let me go outside this bubble
be patient when you will talk to your dad heāll understand you for sure coz heās your dad he just want whatever is better for you and for your future
and please please please stop listening to your rishtedaarās they are the most toxic
whatever they tell you please crosscheck it .
unhe bas mauka chahiye kab tum giro kab vo taane maare
or haan tum kr skti ho NEET clear ache marks se just believe in yourself
:)
