So after 6monts of joining college they have have finally started offline college and called people to campus but they gave a option of hybrid mode and I had to choose online despite of the fact that I was waiting to leave the house and go to college/hostel and make friends now I am sitting at home and people are posting photos from hostel having movie nights or sitting in the same room talking and I am sitting in front of my laptop and the FOMO is killing me mainly no one was waiting for this more than me and the worst part of all is that people other than me who are online at least have friends that they talk to and have fun with but I don’t even have friends I don’t know the reason for this may be because I have same friends for 13 years of my life and I am just 18 so that most of the life and I am so old soul that I don’t even know how to make friends online how to initiate a conversation with someone and now its so late that everyone has a group or a bunch of friends they talk to. I am just so frustrated that I have no one to talk to and have no friends
Go to clg dude.
Can’t man I have my reason believe me no one wants to go more than me.
Adjust for this semester and then go in next semester then .
That adjustment has been goin for the last 6monts and I am unable to do it for 6more months
First of all, it’s never too late to start anything. Just spend some time socializing like on the ground, walk or some events. U will definitely find someone who is just like u.
That was the plan but I am on an online mode that is the entire fuckinggggggggg ploblem!!!
First of all you’re not a old soul. Plenty of people have a little circle of friends. And at the age of 18 it feels like end of the world but its not. You are comfortable around people you’ve been with for 13 yrs there is no shame in that. Although it’s remarkable you guys are strong after 13 yrs. You’re focusing on wrong part. The group of people you hang out with definitely says a lot you. But you have to ask yourself what really defines you as a person. What goals you should have as a young person in this world. What are your weakness you need to focus on. The more you focus on yourself the more people come to you. Because interaction is an exchange of ideas and what will you share if you got none? So focus on yourself. Think about yourself. Like stuff you like or dislike. Be clear about that. There’s seriously a lot i would tell you but you will figure this out. Like all of us just trying our best everyday.
Wow that was very good its sort of a thing that I tell myself too but there are moments that again pulls me down to think about the lonesomeness.
Its lonely path because people who are attracted by you and your thoughts are not normally you would choose. Instead you don’t appreciate them or their remarks. You want someone else to be intrested in you because are interested in them. It does not work that way. You find something interesting you talk about it. You’ll be surprised what you’d find.
