So a week ago I confessed my feelings to my crush. Mostly because I wanted to know where I stand with him. It was very frustrating to not know what to expect. I had been getting mixed signals. As a result, he told me that I am cute and sweet and as much he would love to know me more, he has other priorities and doesn’t want to focus on “these things”. And I do understand, that man literally has a lot of responsibility. Now I feel that life is always like that and it never lets us rest. There is a lot of responsibility on me too which are lesser than him, but I didn’t care about that before telling him my feelings. I know now that simply saying that it’s not the right time is just about delaying your happiness because we never really are free. I do understand that at this point when we both are young, career occupies the highest priority but that doesn’t mean that you can’t let yourself fall for someone and delay a possible happiness with them even if it isn’t among your top priorities. To me it feels like he either doesn’t like me at all or is afraid of it. I even told him that I wasn’t sure what I wanted since I don’t know him very well. I won’t try to rush things in any case and I was very honest with what I felt. Even I didn’t expect to find someone like him and it just happened. I didn’t want a relationship but he is the one person I was willing to consider that possibility with and I was hoping that it can turn into something beautiful. But even when I confessed it didn’t feel enough, he definitely did not make it clear if he ever felt something for me. I wanted to ask but then I thought what’s the use when he is not even ready to be in a relationship. I don’t know what to do now. We ended our chat that we will be friends and hw assured me that nothing would be weird between us but I don’t think it would help me move on. Also, I don’t want to lose him as a friend. It looks like a peaceful resolution but I don’t how it will turn out. A lot of confusion for me right now.
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