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Abhi @trustworthy4u

Single rehne me bhi effort hai, committed rehne bhi effort hai, single ho toh boredom zyada, commited ho toh tension zayada ๐Ÿ˜‚ (as I saw others), so the question is - single life is better or committed life is betterโ€™?

(Hope to get some gud answers ๐Ÿคž)

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OverThinker @shivamk320

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Friends with benefits suna hai best hai ( gam to is baat ka hai yeh bhi hamari kismat mai nahi )

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Uff ye dukh ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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jasmine @jasmine12

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For me, single life is better.

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Obviously ๐Ÿ˜‚, youโ€™ve to wait some more time.

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stranger here @confused_so...

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Single life is better

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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What about boredom ?

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Khelne ke liye feelings, naah ๐Ÿ˜‚ bad choice

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sus_h_ant @sushant_

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Isliye 5 star khao; aur na single na committed; kabhi kuch na karke dekho๐Ÿ˜Š

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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How to implement that kuch na krne vaala option ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Khao peeyo aur mast hokar soo jao๐Ÿคฃ

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Shreya @shrey04

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I would prefer the committed one. Though thereโ€™s tension, but at the end of the day u have that one person u can rely and depend on. Someone who will comfort u provided u choose the right one

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Gud ๐Ÿ‘ hopefully sabko right one hi mile ๐Ÿ˜Œ

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Shreya @shrey04

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Smart ones can manage both. Itโ€™s the understanding thatโ€™s important. My bf inspires and motivates me a lot tbh

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Single๐Ÿ™Œ

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Any specific reason ๐Ÿ˜‚

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You dont have to change ypur fav thing even can do everything ๐Ÿ˜‚
Baby ye mt karo muje accha nhi lgta
Dada muje pasaNd h ped se ulta ltkana ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Dont have to do everything acc to them just do whatever u like sometimes u have to giveup your fav things

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Kaafi zyada confusing ๐Ÿ˜ด

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Friendships >>>>
No boredomโ€ฆ No tension โœŒ๏ธ

But isme v 2-3 frnds hone chahiye at least โ€ฆ Koi 1 spcl one nai hona chahiye basโ€ฆ Warna ye friendship v complicated ho jata hai

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Sahi hai, but friends bhi kaha hi sath rehte hai ek time ke baad

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Hamesha saath toh koi hi nai reh saktaโ€ฆ Life ke alag alag staze me alag alag frnds milte jaenge bass ๐Ÿ˜„

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Ye baat bhi sahi hai ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘

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Iโ€™m always right ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Ye confidence ho toh aisa ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘

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Hn bas over nai hona chahiye ๐Ÿ˜›

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Ye toh aap dekho ab ๐Ÿ˜‚ Iโ€™m toh in full control

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Good ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜‚ alvida abโ€ฆ Faluda dreams

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Faluda dreams ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ye toh me bolta tha๐Ÿ‘

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Ab kuch naya dhund lo aap bolne ke liye ๐Ÿ˜›

Sneha Bakshi @sneha56_

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Single life is better โ€ฆ Work on yourself and dont care about that stuff โ€ฆ

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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But bore bhi ho jaate hai ek time ke baad, when you become successfulโ€ฆ What about uske baad?

Sneha Bakshi @sneha56_

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I think it depends after you become successful and mature enough for all that tension stuff in relationships โ€ฆwhen you are like properly ready to love someone or to spend your time with them โ€ฆ Make that person your priority โ€ฆ Only then you should enter into this โ€ฆ Because I am telling you it hurts โ€ฆ If the other person does not reciprocate

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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True, but thatโ€™s not in our control na, ki how that saamne vaala person will reciprocate , obviously we do our job best from.our side and we can only expect that love from other side but we will never be so sure ๐Ÿ˜Œ so I think itโ€™s like pehle relationship me raho, samjo ek dusre ko and when both are ready take the next step - just like dhruv and kavya did from Little things web series ๐Ÿ’ž

Sneha Bakshi @sneha56_

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You are right โ€ฆ I am saying that dont do things just because of boredom โ€ฆ You know what when we love someone too much and that person dont care about your emotions and feelings they take it as a joke โ€ฆyou cry because of them this relationship thing damages you because of the sudden change in the behaviour of the person you love โ€ฆ It destroys us a lot on a mental and emotional level โ€ฆso โ€ฆ Dont do anything just because of boredom

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Haan toh bore hoke relationship nhi karni yaar, Iโ€™m not on that side although I ask question that way so you think ki due to.boredom, but nahi aisa nahi haiโ€ฆ Although ye baat bhi sahi hai that you mentioned, heart break and mental stress due to that person who doesnโ€™t care our emotions, toh kya kare iska? Ye toh matlab risk lene jaisa ho gaya na phir ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿคž partner sahi Mila toh gud nahi toh bad.

Sneha Bakshi @sneha56_

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Shi bol re ho ap risk wali bt hi hain pr still relationship se dur rehna better hain kyuki jb dil tut jata hain na tbhi ptaa chalta hain ki hmne apne sath kya hi kar liaa โ€ฆ Jb hm kisi aise insaan ko hr wakt yaad kree jise kbhi hmara kheyal hi nhi aata ho โ€ฆ Woh bhut dard deta hain โ€ฆ Dur rehna jb tk โ€ฆ Ap in sb cheezo ke lie ready na ho โ€ฆ Hr insaan time ke sath change hota hain ache insaan ko bura aur bure insaan ko acha bnne mein jeada wakt nhi lgta jb realise hota hain tb hm apna bhut time khrab kr chuke hote hain โ€ฆ

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Okay ๐Ÿ˜Œ seems like someone is mad at thier choices. Sahi suna tha Regret is stronger than forgiving.

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