Since past 2 years have been in a toxic relationship. He is a covert narcissist who is hot and cold as per his convenience. Though I have broken up why do I still wait for him to reach out and fix things? I know even if he will it would be a shortlived phase. How do I move on?
The problem with narcissits is that they never change no matter what you do, unless the change is from inside. Try spending more time with your friends and family. Pick a hobby that interests you as that will take ur mind away from him. Hope this helps. Just remember you are worth so much, so dont give anyone discounts💖
accept the harsh truth … n for tht you really need to process you hurt. once we process wht is hurting us, we eventually get over it. ik u might find me silly, but we hurt as something that can cause us any kind of damage. but no… it is something whcih can be used as an armour. therefore, try to process all of it inside your mind and understand that he didnt deserve you ! trust the universe, its timing n the process of healing. it will definitely take time but you will be okay and will rise shiner n brighter.
love n light💕
Sending you love and light❤
The same thing has happened with me, even I’ve been in a toxic relationship. I know it’s hard to move on but trust me u deserve better.
Take time, it’s okay.
Just embrace all the good things and try to move forward, life will surprise you!.
Just give yourself reasons everyday that why is that person not in your life anymore. It’s okay to miss people but letting them back slide in your could be a big mistake
Absolutely right.
See the reason why you still wait for him to come back and fix it is cause you’ve fallen victim to his hot and cold treatment and you got so used to it. And that’s why you still wait for him to come back and apologise and shower some love and treat you like a queen which is never gonna happen. 2 years of that, and it never changed.
You gotta stop waiting. You gotta realise that even if he comes back and apologises and all, there will still be another point where he would do the same to you. And you do not deserve that anymore.
So it’s time you love yourself and fix the broken pieces on your own. Never depend on someone else to keep you happy. Learn to be happy with yourself irrespective of who is in or out of your life.
Stay strong. You are better off without him. Sending you love❤️.
