since my mom died all my friends kinda turned their back on me and are treating me like I did something wrong. I am just trying to heal. all of them left me at the time I needed them the most and now they are acting like everything is fine but they are really hurting my feelings and there is a lot of stuff happening right now with my dad and family. it is really stressfull
Hey. I’m so sorry that you lost your mom. Here to listen and help if you wanna share!
Have you tried telling your friends and family how you’re feeling during this time. Sometimes being up front about your thoughts, really helps. Maybe then your friends might realise and be there for you.
I told them (my friends ) but they said I was being really selfish and just thinking about my own perspective. and about my family there is no point they just don’t care
I do get that sometimes friends don’t understand. But if you just lost someone so dear to you and it does in no way makes you selfish for wanting someone you can talk with. Have you tried writing all these thoughts down, it might help
If life gets tough than just assume that life is tough for everyone and its not Just you. This may sound out of the box but degrading your problems in your mind really helps a lot in short run
I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I know after such a close loss, the family and balance in the house totally changes. Everyone in the family is grieving and this is the only time you expect your friends to be there. I WONT say it will be easy to move or that degrading your feelings would help it but in times like these I hope you get the strength from within to cherish her memories and always carry her in your heart with you. I am always here if you want to talk.
