tanisha @tanishhaa13
since last week, I’m not feeling good kyuki i had a argument with my boyfriend since then we’re not talking. Ego hai dono ki but today we had a talk kyuki he was sick. Thodi bht baat huyi just normal conversation but not like the way we talk earlier. Phir we just went ‘chal bye main ja rha hu’ i said okay bye par i wanted to talk little more. He is still not behaving the way he use to be. Par I don’t know uski har cheeze mujhe pinch krti hai. Kuch hua nhi ki i start crying. I feel very bad jab bhi koi argument ho jati hai. If i don’t talk to him i will stalk him all the day. I really love him and can’t lose him. We fight more than usual and i can’t control myself aur mujhe roona bht jldi aata hai. I feel so hurt. I don’t know what to do or maybe i cry alot?
Simran @st1199
Hey!
Firstly, it’s okay if you cry after the arguments because you like to express it that way. And rather than letting it go or ignore the fact that you are feeling bad you should take out and sit with your emotions. You must think what and why is that I am feeling this way and how can I handle it.
You and your boyfriend should sort this out as to the “real reasons” behind your arguments. Ego will let you nowhere in life but only problems and dissatisfaction. “Communication” is the key. If you feel like talking more confront him by saying, I want to talk more can we just forget and be back to normal? Or ask him what is that you want to do in this situation so that everything becomes normal? Tell him how you feel and maybe he will be able to understand you better now.
I hope this helps :)
Tysm <3
Simran @st1199
No problem! :)
I hope it helped you today to be positive and come out of all ths.
I completely get you. Its hard to be someone who is super attached and cries easily. This world really makes you believe its just better to be a cold rock than feel everything so intensely.
Don’t worry
