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Since childhood, I have had issue with people that I like not liking me as much. It is not just in the matter of romantic relationships but also family and friends. It affects me a lot when the feelings arenโ€™t mutual in all cases. Is there something wrong with me?

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Simran @st1199

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Hi!
If someone doesnโ€™t get along with you it doesnโ€™t mean something is wrong with you but means you both donโ€™t share the same interests or have understanding.

Try to indulge in those who share the same wavelength as yours and then get close in order not to get hurt.

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Tina Chawla @tinachawla

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Hi! I understand how you feel. Itโ€™s okay to feel that way, itโ€™s not ideal when our efforts arenโ€™t reciprocated right? I read this one thing a few days ago, it said that we should ask people why they like/love us, and it helps us understand their love language. Love language is how one expresses affection, and everyone has a different one, so I think that could be a factor here. And as for the last part, there is nothing wrong with you! Itโ€™s okay to feel appreciated and loved in relationships. Hope this helps!

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I hope u dealt well with that but staying in that situation is v difficult, anyways if u really want to overcome all these situations than invest time on urself, stay busy and focused on any skill u have, interests u have, one day or the other day it will bring success nd wit success comes the attention, love, hope everythingโ€ฆ example learning music, painting, make something in kitchen if u r interested in cookingโ€ฆ Etc etc

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Trisman. @trisman

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dude i understand your pain. at somepoint you will be understand people better and tell what they want so donโ€™t worry about it!

@anonymouss
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i dont think theres something wrong. i think that ur just an introvert, or that u just havent found the right people to be around yet. but dont worry, it will all come on day

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