Should I text him? He said we can talk as a friend, but whenever I talk to him I feel the same way the way it was. 

Do you think that would be okay for you? Won't you keep hurting in being friends.

Decrease the number of text little by little, give yourself time to heal. If you still hold the same feelings for him you have to stop  talking to him at some point else you'll never get over it..

Breakup

Am crying since 3 days and not sure why I just cant stop crying and am not able to focus on my work.
There is a guy for whom I do everything possible and in return what I get is hurt and humiliation every single time. Every-time I think I should stop talking to that guy but I can’t stop since he helps me in my work and guides me because of which I just cant block him from my life.
Few days back I went on a trip with him and he shouted on me even when it wasnt my fault and disrespected me. Am feeling really sad and depressed and cannot focus on anything .
Just feeling like crying and keep on crying and that guy doesn’t seems to care about my whereabouts! and I feel as if without that guy my life would be just nothing. I just dont understand how do I get out of this vicious circle. I love my life cant see myself crying like thids




(Long one)....Is it wrong to feel disappointed if my relationship is not going as I imagined it would go? I mean I know its NEVER flowers and fairytale, but still one would expect it to be emotionally supportive at some level. Everyone's busy, even I'm busy with work, but I try to change some of my habits and routine to make better time for him. Whereas he sleeps till 1 in the afternoon (bcz his shift gets over at 1 am, gets full 10-12 hrs sleep) and then again leaves for office at 2 pm. I tried to talk this issue to him, he shuts me off by saying 'I told this when we were starting this relationship that I'll be busy mostly'. When I try to show my anger by replying in one word to his texts he says that 'it's a turn off for him' and then himself starts talking less. I don't know if this'll work out or not, bcz I don't like taking shit from people. This is irritating me too much now and its only been like 2.5 months.

Boyfriend

I have a bf ..we are in long distance...our parents found out about this ...they told us not to get into commitments amd focus on our career....I can't betray my parents at the same time my heart doesn't want to loose him ..wt to do??
My parents are like wait for 3 years even then if u like him then proceed and till then remain friends..idk wt to do 
Please help

I broke up with someone approx 1 year back. It was a 6 year long distance relationship. And I broke up with him because I wanna get married and he didn't. Plus family didn't want to accept me.  Later I realised that he was toxic for me. He made me  learned that if I had to stay with him I have to agree with him in all respect. This toxic nature I realised that's why I broke up with up.
Recently a coworker praposed to me for marriage.i got scared but I kept my fear aside .I started dating him.just dating... He is really nice and caring. Today he said he loved me and my mind start getting scared . This baggage is stopping me to continue dating him. Every time I try to get pass my fear I got anxious. What to do! 

Anxiety

My eyes are paining at this point. He says, “ it will all be good, everything will turn out great eventually, you will move on too, after 5-6 months of marriage, you will feel good” 
Is that it ??? How come every person tries to reason with breakup through 
practicality ? That’s what they say BEING PRACTICAL. Is love , a taboo kinda thing ? 
So if i love someone, but won’t be able to marry and to whom i would have to marry, just because he will be good specially financially and IT WILL BE ARRANGE MARRIAGE, i am supposed to get over my lover ? The chances of failure are 50-50 in any marriage, but how come when he say that he loves me and his cousin says, “ if something happens between you two, people will taunt your family “
I mean seriously??? Do they LOVE watching arrange marriage people fight ???? Is that a sign of love ? But if they are fighting and marriage is LOVE type, its a SHAME !!!
What the fuck ? And if in arrange marriage something happens between husband and wife, it will be okay for parents to feel guilty for the rest of their life ?? I mean THEY WILL BE OK, just because its an ARRANGE MARRIAGE ! 
It is so damn natural, fight can happen between any two individuals ,nature varies from person to person. BUT HELL NO, nothing implies on arrange marriage people!
Why the fuck society always tries to reason with love marriage ? So if something happens in arrange marriage, IS SUPPOSED TO BE FINE SUDDENLY? Just because its arrange marriage ? What the fuck is wrong with people ??? 
I just wanna scream so loud in these people’s ear till they bleed !
Its bullshit !!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
I am at that point, where nothing excites me anymore, i was a person who loved to explore places, food. I wanted to explore the world. But now, i want all of this with him. If he is not here with me, nothing excites me. And its not the same for him. So many things are above me ,for him. I am not his priority, not even 2nd. But he is ,mine. I want to spend my life with him. But I can’t. He is trying to reason with every damn thing. He thinks that, maybe OUR LIVING TOGETHER WONT BE A GOOD THING FOR FUTURE !
He believes, whatever girl his parents will choose for him, will be good. But me, one the other hand, just can’t face any other guy !
I know the things he will do for his wife. He is such a nice person. 😔 i wanted him.

Marriage

Okay so I really loved loved this guy he lied to me all the time that he was single when he was not.I was never in a relationship with him. It was almost a situationship,(yes he cheated on his gf with me *unintentionally*) he says he never looked at me in a romantic way but then we did all the things like couples. He admits it in front of people that he gave me fake Hopes and he was wrong but he didn't realise it back then.
That girl and he broke up when she got to know he was playing with her as well. And today I found out in the span of 10 months he dated a girl and now he's in a relationship with another girl. (Yes please this guy is a playboy.) Like I know all of this is really toxic and I need to move on but I don't know I'm not able to. It's been a year since I'm trying to move on but one way or the other I end up wanting him back. He may not have loved me but I surely did.
And i hate feeling this way cause I'm stuck and it's affecting my career and mental health so much. I already have anxiety issues and borderline personality disorder it's just so difficult for me to ACT NORMAL.
Today I had several breakdowns. Let's just say I've been crying since morning. I don't even have many friends. And bringing up this guy's topic just makes me feel I'm burdening my friends with my problems which doesn't even makes sense. Like even they must be tired of explaining me the same thing over and over. This is just so exhausting like I need a holiday away from everyone and all of this drama.

its been 18 days i havent talk to the person i love the most because he said he dont want to talk to me anymore every day i remember our late night talks our fights  our video calls phone calls i dont know how to bring that things back i am feeling that i lost him but i dont want to lose him i genueinly love him i dont know what to do 

Depression

I have been meeting a guy, we are on good talking terms. But occasionally, he invests so much emotionally. He does not behave like it's a new interaction , so it should be light and gradual understanding of each other, rather he displays different moods. He's suddenly sad, or angry, or doesn't talk and expects me to take his excuses and be okay(even when I am not his friend or gf or anything, the conversations have just started a fortnight ago). I hate putting so much emotional labour in him. Why am I entitled to his mood swings ? He is so emotionally unstable. I think he would ghost me suddenly because he stops talking abruptly these days. I don't understand how to deal with this. It is choking me

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