Should I talk to my sister who ruined My reputation in front of my family members last yr. She got into an accident and it was life threatening. She got her bones broken n all.
She can’t walk like before as of now. But it might get better in future. I was feeling bad for her accident… So I texted her and talked to her. Asking about how she is feeling n all . But now she is at home. What should I do ?
And after that . I will not talk to her because she did some messed up things in past.
Hope she is doing better Talk it out with your sister … After all she’s your family and siblings are the best and worst of friends but at the end of the day one cannot ignore them neither can they live without … She might have done you wrong in the past and maybe with this accident she may or may have not realised her mistakes ( trauma does that to you ) … So talk to her … This maybe both of your’s new chance to sort it all out on both ends …without Holding grudges and carrying regrets life becomes a little easier trust me
It was too messed up . I am taking to her now. But as soon as she gets better . I am blocking her again . Other cousins don’t even text her as much as I am doing ,tbh. I text her daily .
Don’t block her right away after recovery too … I know this may sound all very self righteous kinda thing but if other cousins have not gotten in touch with her doesn’t necessarily make your decision to block her right … she might have been cruel b4 but Sometimes accidents and situations do change people … Give her a chance … I am not saying forget everything what she did ,NO, but don’t make her past self change your true nature … Now you know what she was like so the minute she shows her mean side back off but give her a chance …
I just can’t trust her. Tbh. I texted her that was me. But why don’t other cousins text her as often as I do . Simply because they don’t like her. She has been a snitch and treated us like garbage. I don’t even want to go in detail.
Sometime people become harsh or snitch as you said becoz that’s what they have experienced or seen around themselves they don’t know how to do anything else … Try to be as neutral as possible , without past judgement and experience making you do things which u won’t do usually … just think that your past with this person of yours is a huge garbage and you don’t wanna carry around a heavy stinky thing around do you ?? So just dispose off … Give it some time you’ll see it yourself whether to work on this relationship or to just say adiós … but till then try to be as neutral as possible
Sanket @sanket
Remember, no reputation is bigger than the family member. In fact go and spend face to face time with her…
