should I get a divorce with my husband? my husband keeps on asking me to do the dirty with another woman he keeps on threatening me saying if I don’t do it he’s going to cheat on me of course i say no whats even funnier is I see him at the gym everyday with this woman but i brushed it off a few days later he asked to do you no what or he was going to cheat on me and i gave in and said ok. Later that day the lady was at are door my heart dropped i didn’t think he was for real we went up to the room and i said i couldn’t do this and that’s when is all took a turn he started getting aggressive yelling saying we were going to do it. i ended up leaving the house that night and staying a my sisters house. but i still love him what should i do?
Confused 24/7 @confused247
I’m sorry you had to go through it, but this is wrong of a spouse to expect his other half to just be ok with it. Distance yourself from him for a while and see how he reacts. If he truly loves you, he’ll come to his senses and rectify his mistakes and want you back in his life.
If he all he wants is physical satisfaction in life I don’t think the marriage will workout. Hopefully you’ll get through this without much problems. Stay positive!
You should cause you can’t throw your whole life for just one person
Vivek @vivekinnit
I don’t think it’s gonna workout mate, i understand people have their own weird things but what’s happening isn’t right. If he cares about his stupid kinks more than you, he’s not worth your time. Give him 1 chance, and if it gets any worse and he resorts to physical abuse, leave him. Because bearing it the first time is the biggest fault
