She was my best friend than she was my gf and we still remained best friends after the breakup.
Only person i could rely on and was most close to. We havenโt talked for two weeks and it feels wierd and sad. No one to talk to and even if somebody do itโs not like they can replace the years of trust we had.
Look after yourself everyone, be your own priority youโll never know when someone might leave, being dependent on a single person gonna end up making you miserable.
Be strongโฆ
The same happened with me to bro she cheated on me and i had to cut her contact off . The felt the same miserable and lonely. Just in a week i lost my everythingโฆ
Stay strong youโll come back even stronger king ๐
Be strong brother. And she did not cheat in my case, Strongest person i know. Just life happened.
raunaq sandhu @raunaqsandh...
Ive had just one girlfriend in my life and she was my friend too before becoming my gf, even she cheated on me. I tried to look past that when she opened up to me and apologised but that image of her kissing another man kept coming up in my mind and I started repeatedly complaining to her that she cheated, we eventually broke up and I was miserable for almost 8 months.
I did everything from reading to talking to new girls but nothing worked. Only thing worked was time, suddenly one day I woke up and I wasnโt miserable thinking about her anymore.
So my suggestion would be block her from all social media, block her number and just let time do their work.
Believe youโll get over her, just keep yourself busy and girlfriends are not everything, theres your career, your parents, your friends, think about them too.
Best of luck bud, god has greater plans for you.
She did not cheat though. Sheโs going through a tough time as well family problems. But we always talked and now we donโtโฆ
Still worried abt her.
So tryna move past it and maybe possibly with time will be able to.
Hey Man hope things get good between you both! Take care of yourself.
I think since she is having family problems you should maybe check up on her if she is doing okay. I think thatโs the least you can do for now.
Thatโs out of questions since she said she donโt wanna talkโฆ Thereโs more to it but thatโs enough for now
oh I see! okay! Take care bro!
Thank you brother
raunaq sandhu @raunaqsandh...
Oh, Iโm sorry, if sheโs going through personal problems, those are her priorities in her life at this time and not you, if that is the case, we need to stop thinking about ourselves and our needs, itโs your time to show that you are with her in her hard times and that is true love.
What you need to do is just let her know that you are there for her if anything extreme occurs, just drop in a text sometimes telling her that if she needs anything? Or โI hope things are improvingโ something on these notes, even if she doesnโt reply donโt let that hurt your ego, you just keep supporting her in little ways.
If she understands this after her problems are over she will come back to you and if she doesnโt, bad luck for her, youโre a king and someone will better will surely come.
Thank you for your words brotherโฆ
I hope the same