She said she isnt ready for a relationship but she says she has feelings for me and it’s nothing to do with me etc… she makes sure to talk to me every day, she’s invited me round to hang out and seduced me, then the next day says it’s a mistake, still talks to me every day after?? Invited me to stay over and have a few drinks and she cuddled me and tried to seduce me again but I said no …. I’m so confused. I really love her but I’m hurt, confused and feel like the trust for her is disappearing more and more each time… if she really had feelings for me would be treat me this way?
What you are saying might be true but what if she’s just afraid of the outcome Or results, it’s just one of the few possibilities
I feel like she definitely is scared but I am too… we could be amazing together but I feel she is overthinking and not communicating, I’m just getting hurt when all I want to do is love her. She’s the one person I want to go to after a long day 😩
Talk to her na then, kisi ek ko samajhna Or dusre ko samjhana padega yar do jan mein
If u know shes more than just a attraction, try your best then, qk har kisiko nahi milta yaha pyar jindagi mein mere dost
In this case i can relate with ‘she’… i love a guy he proposed me but i don’t want to get into relationship bcs it was so tough for me to accept this thing ki mai ek larke ke sath relationship me aauga after all i am a boy too. I want to be with him but i was too scared that time ki hmara koi future hi nahi hai, or kisi aur ko pta chal jayega tab bura hoga, But usne smjhaya it’s too normal… he gave me time… he insured me that he will always with me chahe time jesa marji aaye he will always with me, so i…
So i think you should do the same… give her time to accept this… make her feel comfortable around you… talk to her and love her.
I’m really trying to be there for her as a friend, we have had some really nice evenings together as just friends, but she is always the one to try and turn it into something more by trying to kiss me etc which is why I’m confused, I am happy to just be in her company, I don’t need anything more because I just love to see her, but she keeps making things more if that makes sense?