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Yuvraj @yuvrajjw

She lied, stabbed me on the back, abandoned me when I needed her the most and cheated on me. Funny thing is she made me promise that I won’t abandon her and she did that to me and she’s not even sorry. I want her to feel the pain she has caused me, want her to understand what she had put me through the pain, the suffering all of it. I don’t think that’s gonna happen though. It’s all a wishful thinking. 😔

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Anonymous

I can understand your pain. And you’re right, there’s no way of knowing if the hurt they have caused us will come back to them karmically, but I guess one can only hope. Life isn’t fair like that sometimes. There’s no reason as to why things happen. Why we have to get hurt. Maybe to learn some lesson out of it. But this just makes you want to trust people less and less. The pain reduces with time, for sure, that I can guarantee. But hoping and praying for your revenge will only drain your energy and make you focus on negative thoughts and might ultimately not lead to anything. You’ve just got to trust the process and believe that this happened because there are better things and a better person in your life, who will care about you.

Yuvraj @yuvrajjw

I don’t want revenge. I just can’t seem to move on it’s not like I want her back it’s something different , something I’m unable to understand.

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Anonymous

I think, what they don’t tell you about breakups is that often a part of you remains with the other person. You might always love them, you might miss them but that doesn’t mean you should go back. Often we confuse that fondness with leftover feelings and think that there might be something you can revive. Think of it this way, if you and your sibling got into a fight, you might hate them momentarily, but your love for each other goes beyond that fight. However, the difference between your sibling and your partner is, that your sibling will also come back to you because your bond is that strong. With your partner, if they have chosen to walk away, they won’t come back. So, it’s okay to know that, and okay to move on knowing that you might always care for this person. It’s just your priorities will change. You don’t have to find yourself in a position where you’re completely over her, at least not immediately. Moving on will require tremendous effort. Maybe even talking to other girls, just to remind yourself that it can feel good again when you choose to find somebody else to date. Don’t give up!

Yuvraj @yuvrajjw

I won’t. I’m doing my best to move on. Sometimes it gets unbearable.

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Anonymous

That’s okay. What’s important is that you’re trying. It takes time. It’s not easy. But you’ll get there. Stay at it.

Khushboo @khushboo

I can understand you. I know she did wrong with you. She should  be sorry for this. But if she is not, let her realize on her own. 
I can feel your pain. Try to move on.

@delta344

block her number and move on.

@delta344

move on, cease all contact

Yuvraj @yuvrajjw

I have, but there are some things that I can’t control as she lives near my PG and we have some common friends. We don’t talk but sometimes it’s impossible to avoid her.
And I’m really trying to move on it’s really hard .

Deepanshi @deepanshigupta0

Just move on… Dont care about her now.

@angie

tbh honest you can’t just forget- there’s gonna be moments that you think of her again over and over again - buh instead of suppressing your feelings let it out. yell on the top of your fucking lungs throw stuff until you feel better then why let it all out and get your fucking shii together show her what she’s missing out on and if she comes back idk care how much you want her back - cut that bitch off.

@angie

tbh honest you can’t just forget- there’s gonna be moments that you think of her again over and over again - buh instead of suppressing your feelings let it out. yell on the top of your fucking lungs throw stuff until you feel better then why let it all out and get your fucking shii together show her what she’s missing out on and if she comes back idk care how much you want her back - cut that bitch off.

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