Remember: Marriage is not a reward for doing something right and singleness is not a punishment for doing something wrong

Also, this could be an individual's choice to get married or be single.

Relationships

Hi, I'm scared of concept of marriage
Why?
I see my parents and I feel girl can never be happy in marriage. Although I have seen few of my friends who are happy after their marriage
But when I see my parents I am shattered about this concept, they fight like hell everyday, my dad beats up my mom and my mom shouts
Last night when this fight happened I went and hit my dad, in turn he slapped me and told me to listen to whatever he says and do whatever he says in life
My family is male dominated and I am scared to get married

Marriage

Can we find love in an arranged marriage?

Love

So friends, i have beem meeting guys for arrange marriage, but i'm not able to decide what to ask them or how to judge that this guy would be a good husband.
I understand that they should be willing to do the basics which is love, respect, caring etc. But what else should I ask them or know about thwm in order to decide that he is the one.
Please help. 

did you guys ever got scared of marrying or its just me , i have seen so many broken marriages and people fighting all the time that i lost trust and dont want to marry am unfortunately i  have to this past wee my parents were almost conviced with the match i got , am so scared.. i want to get settled in my life am trying to settle and i took wrong choice in my education and all i am done with is b com and wanted to mba but the fee are high and u wont land in a good job unless i re graduated from b school ...am so scared of marriages ki i woke up from a dream shaking and shit scared because i got married..... how do iescape i dont want to marry a person without knowing i want to know them . but its notpossible for me u know. dont know how i will end up 

Arrange marriage is scary 
What if she has a bad music taste 😏

3am Thoughts

Has anyone gotten married and then within the first 6 months felt more lonely than you’ve ever felt before? 

Like the addition of people into your ‘family’ circle has only made you aware of how much you stick out when compared to the family that you’ve moved into. The well oiled machine didn’t need that extra part but now here you are just wondering what your role is.

The language barrier with the in-laws and their inside jokes that you’d never understand just cause you haven’t been in their lives for long. What happens when all of this just piles up and your partner doesn’t care enough to do anything?

Insomnia

Going through arrange marriage process. It is so tiring and heart breaking at the same time. I feel so low. 
Also what do you guys prefer arrange or love?

Exhausted

Just wanted to know how do you deal with the fact that you get married (love marriage) and then suddenly love disappears and you start developing interest in your childhood friend (he’s also married) and now you know things can’t change and now you just look at this friend’s picture and get jealous and develop anxiety and now this anxiety starts showing it’s effects on your health. ( constant pain in neck and right shoulder since 3 years have been to the best orthopaedics but they couldn’t find the reason and in the end they say it’s due to stress) 
Is this normal or am I a bad for woman? 

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