Recently I’ve just broke up with my girlfriend 1 week ago. I never wanted to break up, I just wanna patch things up with her. But it seems like she’s already moved on by going out with another guy. After broke up, I’ve only realised that all this time she’s been find a guy to talk to about her feelings when we were dating.
Yes from my understanding about her, I have my flaws. When we were arguing, she will say things that would trigger my anger. Causing me to lost control and I will block her from the chat. But most of the time, I will filter her hurtful words and just comfort her to keep her calm. I’m not consistent in filtering her hurtful words, some of her hurtful words would trigger me and I’ll get tired of this and I’ll just stop talking to her at most for 1 day. But to her, this is a cold treatment which she doesn’t like it. So she has been talking to another guy while I blocked her.
It was my fault that she moved on so quickly. I’ve been so nice to her day by day. Only during argument, our personalities are unmatched. My only wish for her is to stop saying words that could trigger me then I wouldn’t have blocked her or give her a cold treatment.
It became toxic…
Try to move on buddy…she wasnt the one
