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Anonymous

Recently I got mad at the person I thought I like because he wants me to do something I don’t like or I’ll say I don’t appreciate it. 
should I talk to him or not??
pls help me

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Beax @beax

I can really understand your situation.  Forse love and for fear of being lonely i did the weirdest things withmy ex boyfriend.  It took me a year to found how stupid i was and leave him… never do things if you not really want do it

Deepanshi @deepanshigupta0

I think we all are complicated persons and we accept so much from our closed ones which other person may not like. I feel you should make him understand about the problem that i don’t like it doing and you can’t force me. Be clear on your life terms and  yaa so just explain him what you feel and rest be remain on him.

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Anonymous

Hello. You think you like him? I have been in a similar situation where I think I like someone and end up doing things which I dont like just to please them or make them happy.You should talk to him and tell him that you don’t want to do what he’s telling you to do because you don’t like it. It’s always better to communicate and let the other person know what you are feeling rather than keeping it bottled up inside.

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Anonymous

thank you

Katness Hollow @katnesshol...

i agree with the rest of the people do ur own thing. dont get pressured into anything. and if u really like him u wouldnt be mad and if (sorry to say) if the person liked u then they would not have done that

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Kapil Agrawal @kapil15a

That’s fine each one of us have expectations but if you are not comfortable then you must make it clear to your partner. And if things don’t work out then dear that’s not your calling self improvisation is the key to betterment and world has so many things for you ☺️

Khushboo @khushboo

You should always set boundaries and be very specific of how you want things to be done , this will ensure that the person will start respecting you and will be able to know what are comfortable with.
The key is communicating and clearing all the things and you’ll feel better and can bond with the person more easily.

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Anonymous

You should always set boundaries and be very specific of how you want things to be done , this will ensure that the person will start respecting you and it will be easier for you as well to adjust with the person.And I get it when we like somebody we tend to do the things, we won’t otherwise do. But the key is communicating and clearing all the things all out,you’ll feel better and can bond with the person more easily.

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Anonymous

Thank you so much, guys I have been really confused 
but you guys actually help me
thank you so much :)

Shivam @shivam1

lets cover your question point by point you got mad at the person you thought you like and if you like him and you got mad that whole incident would be running throughout your mind whole day or weekshe wants you to do something you don’t like just say “NO”  otherwise you will regret it.personally if i would be in your position i would talk to him/her once see where things are going if its on the negative side i would stop talking

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