Really need some new friends with whom i can be myself with whom iknoww there won’t be any judgement really wanna make new memories which make me happy rather than sad

Trust is earned so before that cant say anything

Yupp so showing desperation wanting to be friends will attract people with motive and agenda.

Sending virtual hugs your way :') 
I so relate to that feeling. 

Will you be able to trust such friends?? 

Friends

"No experience is in itself a cause of our success or failure. We do not suffer from the shock of our experiences - the so-called trauma -- but instead we make out of them whatever suits our purposes. We are not determined by our experiences, but the meaning we give them is self-determining"

Source: The courage to be Disliked by ichiro kishmi, fumitake koga

Commets welcomed.


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its 'my guy's bday n being an artist can't even draw anything :'( cuz kuch dimag mei hi ni ara.
Ese I keep spamming him with doodles n drawings, bt jb main din h🤦‍♀️😢toh kuch ho hi ni ra. When it comes to other people, I get so many ideas bt uske liye why U can't even scribble anything.
He said many tyms that bday is not a big deal n I should not take pressure to do anything but 🥺mann toh krta h na to make ur someone feel special on his day.
 I planned to visit him n few surprises 'but thn covid happened! I cant travel + he got positive..
😞I want his bday to be spcl but kuch ni hoga.
:'( disappointed.

ps. M just venting out n thn might go back to work.

Long Distance Relationship

What helped you most in anxiety

Anxiety

Aaaahhhhh kyuuu!


Life

Hello 
Let's talk

So I confessed my bestfriend that I like her but I was aware she doesn't like me so I just wanted to tell her  bout my feelings so she started avoiding me well I never forced her to talk to me and last week her bf cheated on her so she called me to come over so just went their and she started asking random questions why I like her and all and suddenly she kissed me I was literally feeling butterflies in my stomach but and for 2 days she was clingy and all but  she met a boy idk his name he is her friend ig she started hanging out with him and said can we just meet at house not in school and all and started avoiding me in front of all especially in front of that boy so the point is am I just rebound???

How sad it is that I can't live the way I want to and I can't choose and make decisions for myself given the society we live in it so difficult to be yourself completely like there's always judgement around us it so difficult and how sad it is that we have to change ourselves for the people around us because people are not accepting enough and people are so judgemental how sad it is that life is like that and we have to change according to other people's needs and we can truly be ourselves around anyone like if I were laughing too loudly someone will correct me and tell me that I am a girls I should not laugh as loud if or if I was to wear a certain type of cloth then they will also stop me from wearing that I feel like this is it does not allow me to do anything I want to do personally and how sad it is that we have to live with this that nobody fight said that nobody questions it and everyone is a part of this structure that they have created for us it so difficult to manage everything and to change ourselves according to like everyone else around us and not be able to truly be ourselves and live the way we want to??? Why can't I sit the way I want to be the way I want or just exist the way I want??? I want to be free and I want to be able to make decisions for myself please take me out of this hell

Society

@stiwari157 🥺 I hope things get sorted in between us soon and we get back together again !!!!! 

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