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Lia @leelia

quick question, if someone invites me to go grab a coffee with them but i’m not carrying any money with me so i say “ugh im sorry i’m not carrying any money with me atm” but they’re like “oh don’t worry i’m inviting” should i accept or decline the offer? maybe it sounds like a stupid question but i feel like sometimes people offer you things just to be nice but they’re actually expecting you to decline the offer? idk what do people usually do?

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Aditya @aditya2024

Itna mat socho

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Lia @leelia

idk what that means lol

Aditya @aditya2024

Don’t think this much. Where r u from

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Lia @leelia

ohh okay i’m sorry i overthink a lot 😅 but still, what do i do then?? that didn’t answer my question lol. I’m from Canada.

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Lia @leelia

lol but it happened to me once when i was not carrying any that’s why i started overthinking what if i’m in this situation again? bc i don’t always take money with me when i’m just going out for a walk or coming back from university. Like i don’t expect these things to happen yk. But ur right i should always carry extra money with me

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Anonymous

That depends how well you know that person.
If you know that person pretty well, then you may consider going however if not, you may consider not going out for it.

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Lia @leelia

if it’s a friend that i haven’t met in a while? we’re not really close anymore, but we used to be once. Do you let them pay for you or do you decline the offer?

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Anonymous

Well, i can’t say that you must do this.
As i am a male, if i were invited like this, i would not go even if we were friends in the past.
Now the questions arises of it is a male or female.
If male, you may consider as males don’t expect females to pay however this statement is not absolute.
But if it’s a female then i let it to your discretion as i can’t say anything about females.

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Anonymous

Carry what?

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Anonymous

I am not trying to confuse her. I am telling her how she should fabricate the situations according to gender.

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Lia @leelia

I think i’ll just listen to you and carry some lol

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Anonymous

Depends on if you are a coffee person or not 😂

Anonymous

Accept

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