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Anonymous

Quick question- How do you guys deal when someone close to you say very mean and hurtful things to you? How you forget that or just let it go because you love that person? And even after saying sorry, after sometime they hurt you again, how you handle that?

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I believe in having a dialogue. But for starters if i have had a fight I usually walk out of the room. Maybe it’s my way of escaping things but I realised that it’s the best way to avoid a heated confrontation. And this happens both ways so best is when angry or frustrated don’t equal it. Rather zone out for sometime.

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Anonymous

Thats something i wanna add up in my life

Anonymous

I blocked them and never let them back in my life

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Anonymous

Blocking isn’t much of an aoption in my case

Anonymous

Then I’d just confront them, I know it can be awkward but I had to take a stand for myself. Try that

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Anonymous

That went wrong

Anonymous

Oops… atleast now they know what they shouldn’t have done

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Anonymous

I guess i need to move on

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Anonymous

I take a very similar approach to this but it hurts when the other person does not even try to understand where I’m coming from even if I try explaining that

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Anonymous

Same here

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Anonymous

You can only let them know and rest is upto them

Shoaib @shoaib

Just let it go it’s one of the most difficult things to do in life but it’s worth doing

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