Psychology Says

When people say "you've changed," there's a 95% chance that you just stopped acting the way they wanted you to.

3am Thoughts

Wanna play truth&dare anyone interested? 

Other

You know I bought a Jenday conure last year on October 29 so he could help me deal with my depression, I named him Camilo and he really did help me cope with depression. About 2 months after I got him I clipped his nails and I clipped a little too much and he started bleeding, I felt bad and calmed down the bleeding. Ever since he doesn´t enjoy my presence, when my family takes him out he is happy and enjoys being with them and it makes me really sad that he doesn´t like me since he started attacking me for months now. I tried gaining his trust but it´s useless.
I've been feeling pretty down lately so I going to get another one because I can´t deal with the sadness and anxiety. Hopefully, this new bird won´t hate me too, I´ve gotten back to my old habits of cutting so that´s another reason I want a bird so I can calm myself down 

Stress

https://open.spotify.com/track/19OafITeOeZCgqgGSjiBWK?si=ujv2N6-5TEykgDlC5faKWA

Music

I think that I am going to commit suicide. Maybe not today, next week, or even next year. I just have a feeling that will be the way I leave this horrific world. 

Am i the only one who’s looking for Rosegaar on Rose Day?🥲

Job Dissatisfaction

Mera net khatam ho gya 🥲🥲🥲

Now&Me Thinks

Hey people! Hope you guys have been doing well! Virtual hugs to everyone for small victories and losses. Tomorrow is a new day! Keep at it!

So all my fellow #NowMEians, especially those who are going to marry soon.
Firstly! Congratulation on finding that special someone! 😍😍
I am sure you all are ready to take that next big step in your lives. To build a new life together. To help each other grow as a person. I'm really happy for you people!!

B U T ! ! !

Have you both talked it out with each other? Like are both your goals same? Are you doing it because you want to? Or because you have to? You might have gotten enough advice on how Marriage is as an institution right?

Marriage is a bond. You need to build it. It takes time. The road is rough. For some, more than the others. It needs dedication, loyalty, understanding, compromise and being supportive of each other! 

Marriage is a hotpot. You have to put in your salt, sugar and spice. You **both** have to. It is your hotpot. Don't let others cook that for you! We know the saying, "too many cooks, spoil the broth!"

Marriage is like alcohol. It starts out great! Everyone is having a good time! But You cannot get drunk and do what you please, and later blame that on being married. Marriage is like a fine wine, that deserves to be aged with time. And like all alcohols, you also need to know when to let go of the bottle.

Marriage is like a train. You will have several new people in both your lives. Some unruly passengers, included. You have to compartmentalize. You have to know when to separate them from the engine. There will be stops or points in time, where some people will have to be let go. Their role in your lives is/was done.

I can give you other similarities but that is not the point. 
What I'm saying is, when two people decide to spend the rest of their lives together, it has to be mutual! If you have a past and it is not letting you move on, resolve it first. The other person doesn't deserve to carry that baggage! They might offer you their support, but it should be your responsibility to deal with it. To the best of your abilities. 
Remember, its not just you. Its the both of you.

Thanks for reading till the end. And I wish you both a very happy married life! Cheers! 😊😊

Marriage

this will always be my fav random talks^^ 🙆‍♀

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