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Is Canada a good country to live in?

3am Thoughts

I am an average high school brown household kid. I am the kid who has been under constant pressure for performing good in his exams so as to excel in future. I am the kid who has to be on his toes day and night to satisfy their parent's eyes and if not, is scolded. I am the kid who is demoralized and demotivated daily by his family with the constant nagging. All this has made me rather get scared from studying than actually liking it. The last 2 years of high school has been very traumatizing, be it the pressure of studying or not studying due to the mental issues my parents have caused.
Everything was fine until recently a few days back my results came for the mid term. I was not failed but they were not A+ either, which highly upset them and caused a big havoc to the extent that I had never seen one to this extent. My mom as usual went on nagging me and called me a "failure", "a person who cannot do anything in life" and a lot of other depressing thing I can't even spell out right now. My dad, went on the next level as you may imagine, he first had a fight with my mom on the phone while he was in the office, then when he came back home, he lectured me for around 1 and a half hours and I can't describe enough how depressing and shit feeling it was. He said things which I could have never imagined, said things which broke me highly from the inside to the extent that I had a breakdown in front of him. He also made me repeat a sentence "I am a failure" 3 times even though I had failed none of my subjects and this was just too much for me to handle. All other parents of my friends handled it carefully but my dad just doesn't care, all he cares about is the money he has spent in my education and how I need to repay everything back to them. On such extremist events, I always feel like putting an end to all these things by either killing myself or switching to substances, I just don't want all this be it any method, I have had enough of this pain and suffering. This feels for like a slavery rather than enjoying childhood. For them, it was like the end of the world - not so good grades in mid term knowing I still have another term left to improve. 
It is the 3rd day after all this and everyday they fight on the phone while my dad comes back from the office. All this while still getting to listen to the constant nagging.
My point is that my grades went down due to the constant pressure and nagging and not because I didn't study enough, and even if I performed bad, which I know, please do not treat me like this. Like, how am I even supposed to start studying back again under all these circumstances?
The things I have written in this post are too little to imagine, the real condition on ground zero is much worse with a lot of the details left, I don't have anyone to call to and tell all this so I came here, hope I get some love here! 

Regards
The Average High School Brown Household Kid

Domestic Abuse

I want to share my story and I think it will be little boring for off fielders so apologizing for that
I am 21 and just completed btech in chemical field and in the month of February I got placed in government company with the package of 18.45 lacs , they gave medicine offer letter in March itself and this was my campus placement but in June when my medical checkup was done , they rejected me on that bias saying I am having squint in my eye ( means it is slightly slant , around 4-5 degrees) but neither do I nor my parents have ever seen something like this in my eyes , Even when I was infant they haven't seen anything like this in my eyes , means it is also not visible from naked eyes and this thing is also next to normal thing but they didn't gave me any time to fix these and they just rejected me.
This also don't require any surgery just 3-4 days of exercise can be sufficient but they didn't listen to me at all. My job was gone and due to placement i was also not able to sit in any other interviews. I feel very low for that 🥺.
Now I have one offer from a private company named Aditya Birla but it's package is only 6 lacs but I have to go for it compulsuorliy and will join after 2 weeks .
But I still remember that company and the way I cracked every round of interviews and tests for the company. I sometimes overthink that what are the bad deeds that I have done that I am getting this much big punishment. Thank you for reading. 

Career

I have lied to my friends about that I was also detained in some subjects in my engineering, and after those semester I have got almost full marks in every semester bcz i was good in studies from my childhood but I didn't know what happened that semester where I got detained in 4 subject.So now I have to join the summer term and I will have to tell them that I hide this fact from them will it damage my image or how they perceive me or my dominance in the equation 

Friends

help please:- I am 18 and quite confused about everything, about career, life, everything. I am in first year of my graduation, having math as my major subject, I want to have a decent paying job, but don't like studying at all, when I prepare for government job exams, I don't like studying, I don't know why I took math as my major subject, but I really don't want to study anymore, I don't have a very good relation with my parents, especially with my father. I want to take a break from life, and go on a trip somewhere, but feeling ashamed to ask money from them. in past, I have taken some bad career decisions, like going to Kota for JEE preparation, but returned after 2 months due to the extreme pressure there, I want to start working in a company as a safety supervisor, i am eligible for it, but my parents aren't letting me work, because of prestige in society etc. they want me to do something good. They forcefully admitted me to a D. Pharma college in my city, which I didn't wanted to join because i fear what will happen, if the exams of D. Pharma clashed with dates of other exams, like my college exams or any other competitive exam. I denied them during admission but they didn't agreed, giving the example of my Kota's decision and doing emotional drama. I may be wrong, but I don't really want to stay with them anymore. I am quite unclear about what to do in career, I have lost my confidence, and doing small things seem very big, i am a overthinker, every decision i take, I take it considering the welfare of her, of my parents, but i don't really want to think about them at all, I want to be selfish, I want to not care about them, please help.

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