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pls help me & read this ! (sorry its so long)

So my ex and I have been friends since middle school and they told me they liked me the summer of 2020 (after middle school ended) and basically we were dating until this January. Our whole relationship was online. This was because 1) I was still in vitrual school while they were in person and 2) their mom is very homophobic and she looked through my ex’s phone & saw a pic of me so I couldnt hangout w/ them since their mom knows what i look like. i couldnt even ft them. But, we texted everyday, said gm/gn and helped each other w/ struggles we had. I came back to school this January, and the first week I got back they seemed happy and excited. We hungout during lunch and after school ( since i didnt have any classes w/ them). But after a bit, they were getting distant. they had made a new best friend, Jamie, while I was gone, which I completely understand since everyone needs someone they can be friends with at school, but they started to forward all her attention onto their new friend Jamie. (Also when I would meet my ex after school, Jamie and her would meet me ther together). My ex was barely looking/talking to me when we were together, they’d only look and talk to their other firends that were around. this all left me so lost and confused. i didnt know what was wrong. a week or two before february, they broke up w/ me giving reasons that they needed to find theirself, focus on mental health, and made a point how they wouldnt even date anyone for a long time & needed space. but they wanted to stay friends with me, which i was happy about. i wanted to give them anything they needed, including space. so i did. i didnt meet them at lunch/after school as much, and if i did, i was only there for 5-10 min and didnt even have a conversation. this went on for a while until they started talking to me more. i saw this as some kind of light of hope, like maybe i finally gave them enough space and now we can be friends again, and it was like that, but it was very on and off. one week we’d be talking as if we were bsfs back in middle school again, and then the next week it was like they didnt even know me. and i hated this because of how confusing it was. i’d walk home upset, not knowing why they were being so on and off, but like i said, i wanted to be understanding, so i just accepted whatever conversations i got with them. at the end of the school year, i was waiting for them at our usual spot after school, when i saw my ex and Jamie walk the complete oposite way not even looking at me. id been meeting them at this same spot for weeks, and although my ex wasnt exactly talking to me, it hurt. because they werent some horrible person. and i didnt know why they didnt just tell me they didnt wanna meet me anymore or if they were ging somewhere else. and it was like this for the last few weeks of school. they both never met me at ur spot anymore, and i soon found out that my ex, jamie, and a few other friends that i’d meet after school, are all together… but at a new spot without me. this hurt, and felt like some huge punch in the face. anyways, i tried talking to them but it didnt work. i decided to text them a couple paragraphs when school was out but they blocked me. If you read all this, (lol tysm if u did), any ideas why they just blocked me & won’t even tell me why they completely cut me out??

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anuj vohra @anujvohra

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Leave this.you have helped them as far as possible. Let them enjoy their life and you focus on your life and find new friends. Good luck

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Wanderer @sris

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The best thing you should do is to just leave it. The other person don’t care about your emotions it seems and if they will come to you it will all them, you have done everything already so just leave it.

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Anonymous
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Probably was not into you or confused about your relationship. Sometimes things didn’t work as we want but it’s better to just go with the flaw. If u already consider her as your ex just move. There’s no need to clarify yourself either. You worth much better. It might be tough for you but you gotta do it for your sake. What’s the point of the relationship when other person don’t even want to clear their misunderstandings and just leave u like u were nothing ur feelings were nothing.

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