Pls help
I have never been in a relationship till date but there is a girl we are talking to each other on calls daily from last 9 days even went for shopping together & i feel like im in love with her & she is also into me but now as i go ahead i feel like it's making me weak in front of her.. i opened up my weakness in front of her & now i fear what if she misuses them but at the same time i want to go ahead with her.. pls help me come out of this conflict.

What if i waited this long & she started feeling like i don't have feelings for her

The real one will wait Never rush it takes time to understand someone spend time with her as you usually do but don't just open up about your emotions later on when you feel like she is the one just propose her 

Do one thing wait for some more time like maybe 1 month and then decide whether you should get in a relationship or not don't rush just take some time to understand her

Conflict

So my best friend and her boyfriend got in a really bad fight yesterday and he said all the possible mean stuff to her everything which would provoke her trauma and even slapped her, yesterday she decided to break up and never look back and today when I met her she is back with him?????? I mean it's her life I understand but dude wtf? I don't want to go and tell her to break up or anything because it ll sound wrong because both of them are my friends but I really don't want her to lower her self respect so much or go through that again. Her boyfriend always blames her and scolds her in front of others... I can't digest the fact she came back with him 

Friends

She always do this 🙁

I feel really bad, there hasn't been a single day I haven't cried ever since this year started. 
there's someone who I really miss, I can't get over her, I loved her and I still do. I hate myself for not doing anything now I regret everything. It kills me to know we could've been together in this exact moment but we aren't and seeing her living her life while I'm here secretly dying it's what is killing me. Am I really overreacting? is this how everyone feels after falling in love for the first time? cuz i think ill never find anyone like her bc I've never met someone as good as she is.  She's an angel, i wish she knew how worth it she is, her heart is made of gold. Just the fact that she existed changed my life and if it weren't bc we met idk if ill be here today, how can I let her go? if she's my happiness, my home, the only person I actually like, the only one whom I feel safe around. Everyone else feels so distant and meaningless to me, how can i love someone else? But now we don't live in the same town, covid is around and  my parents don't let me go anywhere we are never going to see each other again and idk how not to lose touch, it's time to let go after all i doubt she'll ever feel the same. But still i can't do it cuz trying to forget her hurts me even more. I feel so jealous of everyone who gets to be next to her, who gets to see her every day. I hate everything and I can't take it anymore.

Love

Pro level frustration .

Frustration

Hey . Cant sleep now days peacefully! My gf has been ignoringme since laat 6 days. I tried to text her. I was blocked . I called her. I was blocked. We both are 26 now. We were planning our life together. Our parents talked once casually to take things further. We date like 6 years. Since last 3 years its has been pretty Much long distance but we were close like hell. We had each other and we didnt need any other person. But sincr she has blocked me. I tried calling 50 times. Texted her through another insta id.
We had a little fight. It wss not that big of a fight but i dont know what happened that it has lead to this way where i am helpless. No one to talk to . Not to discusse any thing. Its like she thinks i dont exist anymore. 6 years man ..6 years ... my heart has a constant burden right. Want to cry but unable to !! Pls help me. I cant imagine anybody else apart from her besides me ! 

Relationships

to the guy she loves,

she’s a rainbow in the night sky, rare and incredibly beautiful. never ever lose her for any reason. she doesn’t express her feelings openly, but that doesn’t mean she’s devoid of them and so doesn’t ever do anything that might hurt her even a little bit. if you do so then i might be your worst nightmare.

she enjoys the cute little fights for importance, but be sure to end them now and then because she doesn’t like them extending for days. even if there isn’t any mistake on her part, she doesn’t mind apologizing as the relationship is more important to her than her ego. so all you have to do is, forget the problems and behave normally with her again.

she never lies and so she doesn’t like it when people don’t believe her. it pisses her off like anything. so please don’t do that, ever.

she has high goals in life and so she may not always be able to spend time with you. you’ve got to understand this and give her space. at times when she feels low, she expects you to be there for her. so be there to comfort her always.

she enjoys a little possessiveness but please don’t overdo it as it becomes a bit nagging.

she might fall asleep at times when you’re talking but instead of getting angry or upset about it, learn to appreciate the cuteness and her interest in talking to you until the very end of the day.

always choose her above anything or anyone else, and you’ll never regret it. i can guarantee you that.

from
the guy who loves her.
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3am Thoughts

Sad
My girl friend got angry over a triffling issue 2 mnths back and she blocked me from every where but after 2-3 days i am trying to calm her down through writing mail and letters so slowly she stared talking to me once in a week so i thought one day i will sort out everything. But a week back she was in my city so request her for meeting and she denied on everyrequest. When she left my town i request her to please be normal in relationshio she said i moved on and u should. We cann't more than a friend.

Guys, I need your opinion.
So there is this cool, cute girl. We were good friends. But one day i got into a fight with her.
Then she said "OK YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK ITS OKAY DON'T". And next day i reply "OK". Then she blocked me. And after a week or somedays later i text and said "I'M SORRY".
But then she said "I'M BUSY RIGHT NOW AND I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS THING I'LL TEXT YOU LATER". It's been nearly 4 months she hasn't replied yet. Few days ago it was her birthday i thought of wishing her but i didn't.
I asked my friends should i text her or not.
They said "DON'T. BECAUSE WHEN YOU WENT TO SAY SORRY SHE HAD NO TIME FOR THIS THING. NOW ITS ABOUT SELF RESPECT".
So what you guys think should i text her or not?


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