Please help me to move onā¦it looks like i am never going to forget himš
Please donāt say everything will be alright with time because nothing is happening right.
He got married to someone else after our 4year of healthy relationship because of his parents pressure.
We both loves each other so much but now he says he wants to move on but he was always loyal with me and now he wants to be loyal with his current partner and i also want that he should move on from me but i just canāt adjust this thing that he wants to move on from meš i want him to love me for his whole life .
I am so confused right nowā¦ i donāt know what to do .
Please someone help me š
Janmesh @janmesh
Hey It would take time to move on but eventually it will be done! You need to talk about it frequently and let it all out the thoughts and memories you have to share it and it will all be okayā¦ But itās going to hurt you more and it would take more time! So trust yourself and the process and keep moving!
If you need friend to talk to Iām here you can contact me here or text me offsite Iāll be all ears :)
I know it would take a lot of time but i have so much things to do in my life but i am unable to do anything because the memories, thoughts keeps coming and coming and dreams are like torturing me every night. My mind is full of negativity. I try to relax myself but it looks like i have loose everything. I love him so much. He is still like my family. I donāt want to forget him. I just want to move on from this pain.i just want to move on from these thoughts.šš
Janmesh @janmesh
Moving on doesnāt mean forgetting him!! Itās making yourself much stronger just by caring for yourself and overcoming the thoughts that affect you! Your relation had good memories and you should always remember that and also the fact that now heās no more in your life accept it and start appreciating yourself :)
Hey wish i could give u a hug right now. I feel every inch of ur pain. But please press on. I also feel sad for the person he got married to, he didnt do right by falling to parents pressure. But what if he hurt u even after getting married to u. He should have taken a stand for himself but didnt. This behavior could have hurt u in future also. U deserve better girl. Hugging u virtually. You will come out of this soon sisterā¤
