Please help me out here. So there is this guy. We made out at his place, it was mutual, but I had already cleared that I don’t want a relationship as of now, or maybe not in near future. But he wants it. He’s a very sweet guy. But when I did all that it felt like I’m cheating on my ex boyfriend who is probably not even concerned about my life now. I don’t know what to do.

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Avni @avni

Please respect and uphold your boundaries without feeling obligated because the guy is “sweet” or feeling guilty about someone whose opinion holds no weight in this equation. The only person whose opinion matters is yours and you did a good job of placing clear intentions beforehand.

No one 111 @jarul

A relationship is not the price you pay for another human being’s kindness, neither is sex nor is conversation. You don’t owe him anything. But I have a strong feeling that you kind of like this guy or at least you want. So forget about the ex he doesn’t exist delete him and block him off every communication platform. Add another guy I to the mix and then another one just for variety

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