PLEASE HELP ME
I committed a huge mistake. And I am regretting a lot now. I am scared. This might not seem that serious to u, but it is serious to me. Actually I am preparing to get into a good university. I was good at studies. I lack self-control. That is the reason I decided to stay at residential college, even though it is not easy. After one year of staying there, lockdown came. When I was in the hostel, I planned all kinds of things, like getting perfect in topics that I lag. But once I came home, everything became opposite to my expectations. I never studied. I got into many addictions and didn’t even listen to my online classes. I just locked my door, entered the meeting, minimized the tab and opened incognito window and was getting myself more addicted to the distractions. Today is the end of 4th month. And apparently after another month they will be opening the colleges. What do I do? I am scared. And from yesterday, sir is calling me and asking me what I have done and is asking me send the pics of them. I am just saying ok and not sending them. And I’ve cheated in all the exams. what should I do now??😰 what if they start asking me questions?? I don’t even know the syllabus. I’ve been lying to everyone, even myself. I am getting stressed out. I don’t want to go. I’ve seen live examples of people’s state now, who didn’t work hard before. I know everything. That’s why I decided to work hard. But I am still like this. And the only thing I am good at is studies. I even don’t have that now. I am scared. My stomach is getting upset and I feel nauseous whenever I think of what I am doing. And there is no way I can tell this to anyone. Everyone has high expectations on me because till now I’ve been setting records of high scores in my family. How should I face them now? I am so scared. It was very hard when I missed a single class before, because I had to put double effort to cover up. And now? it’s been 4 months. Even though I want to start now, I don’t know where to start. I can’t even tell this to anyone. And it is not like I can give up studies, because that is the only thing I can do. Even if I am trying to listen to the classes now, I am unable to understand anything.
WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE HELP ME. I know that the fault totally lies in me. Despite knowing that I am unable to get rid of those distractions.
I HATE MYSELF
first thing do not panic,relax and understand ur situation. ik it is too late but no harm in trying now. clear ur mind and start a fresh beginning. remind ur self constantly why ur working so hard, if it is difficult to remember because of ur distractions , write it down some where or eve every where. since u said ur a good scoring student i guess it might get easier once u start it. now even i have messed up my studies in this period and this is how i got back on track
step 1-a clear mind and clear state better ur concentration
step 2-control ur distraction, since u use an electronic device make a wallpaper that remind u of what ur working hard for, do not touch the mouse pad and stay a bit away and keep ur hands in ur control,the key is ur determination, or just stick a note on ur screen saying what u have done in the past.
step 3-ask a friend for his/her notes or if u feel too guilty, collect notes from every one with some or the other reason. ik that is bad but…
now u know what has been thought for the past 4 months
step 4-make a planner and stick to it . ur more likely to complete ur work if u write them down.
step 5- stay in a place where ur parents can see u and ur screen , if they can see u u will definitely not open any other window
step 6-practice this with determination and will for a week or so then it will become easier to stick to ur plan
step 7-do not betray ur self
work hard nothing has gone out of ur hands u can still make a better person of ur self
i guess i will explain the planner part again
what i meant it taking ur 4 months syllabus divide it based on ur capability
also do not forget to follow the current syllabus as well. write down what ur gonna do every single day and then stick to it
well u know it is not that difficult to get back on track if u have the will and determination
u still have time. just push ur self a bit more hard and try to cover ur missing syllabus as much as possible . i am sure u can make it.
all the best😃😃😃😃👍👍👍👍👍
Oh God! Thanks a lot! Especially step-5… it’s really helpful… Thank you for taking your time to help someone like me… 🙏 I will do my best from today!!💪
ur welcome
STICK TO IT!!!
IT WILL NOT WORK OTHER WISE
NOW IS BETTER THAN ANYTIME ELSE
ALL THE BEST AGAIN!!!👍👍👍
